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What it means to be mixed!

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Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
Some of you might read that word mixed and immediately thing potpourri or trail mix or Holiday popcorn tubs. If you do then congratulations for being part of the vast majority of Americans who don't automatic thing of the word mixed as part of a human attribute. Now please don't misunderstand me. I am not saying you are somehow more sensitive than other Americans that do see being mixed as a human attribute I am just saying that you are part of the majority.

First off I must say that America is now and has always been a mixed nation. America was founded to tolerate if not promote diversity. Religious diversity was the first thing that was carried over from Europe to the American continent. By the way, diversity is the same thing as being mixed. If I have a tub of random toys there is a diversity of toys in my tub. There is a tub of mixed toys.

But Religious diversity was not the only diversity that America was founded to tolerate and culture and nurture. Ethnic or National diversity as well. Consider thew almost corporate like efficiency by which our government nationalizes new immigrants. Immigrants are expected to pledge allegiance to a concept that is embodied in our constitution and our body of laws and in our form of government and ultimately in our way of life. This seems utterly obvious to any natural born American but to an Immigrant it is like being baptized. Becoming an American is like being born again. Any new Christian convert can testify that being accepted into the body of Christ is a dynamic experience unlike any other. He is in the world yet not a part of it. He uses all his worldly tools but with new purpose. In essence he has re purposed his humanity for the cause of divinity. And the beauty of it is that Jesus accepts the new convert just as he is.

Likewise an Immigrant to America brings all his baggage from the old world. He brings his way of life and cultural and national distinctness and he reinterprets it in an American context. He strips down the parts that don't work. He rids himself of his former burdens. He adapts and adopts new ways and becomes an efficient new interpretation of what he always was an ethnic native of wherever in the planet he came from. This adaptation of culture, ethnicity and nationality has promoted the importation of the greatest minds from around the world into America. It is also what makes us diverse or as I put it in the title of this rave, mixed.

I think what scares us though about being a mixed or diverse America is that we are afraid that with enough mixing America will cease to be a cohesive whole. We are afraid that we have reached a point that we can only tolerate but so much mixing and then we will cease to be what is familiar to us. But if we look around we can see an America that is very dissimilar to the America that our parents found familiar. Ask the elderly members of your family that grew up in America if you have any and they will tell you America has changed. This is what we are afraid of. We are afraid of change but change is what we are. Diversity and mixing is not about developing recognizable patterns, it is about remaining fluid and in motion. Why do we keep turning the cement? So that it will not become a solid. It is essential that America does not become solid.

Being mixed in America is being American. Even the most purest blood line in America has a stray thread branding it's family tapestry as unique. Often people look at the product of black and white racial mixing as just another shade of black. We do that because we have been taught that black is bad. We were taught this because we wanted to ostracize those that we had oppressed. We were afraid that if their numbers grew that thew would hurt us in kind as we hurt them. And so we had to define what them is. So now 100 plus years later we will call someone with whiter skin than most southern whites black because his hair kinks just a bit more than it should. Or we will call someone with a spanish sounding last name a Latino even if no Spanish has been spoken in his family for over 7 generations. We are afraid that because he has a mixed race bloodline that has traces of African who were oppressed elsewhere in the Americas that he will somehow unite with those of the same kind over here and their numbers will be larger than ours and they will exact their revenge.

But being mixed in America is being American. It is more than the parts. Being mixed is the whole. In applications that ask to delineate race and ethnicity the distinction is always made: One can classify his ethnicity as Hispanic but not his race as black or white. If he choose to put down a race he must omit the ethnicity of Hispanic. This fly's in the face of logic but it is because of this fear that I mentioned prior. But once again I remind you dear reader that it is an illogical fear because to be mixed is to be American. It matters not where the mixing occurs. It could be religion, culture, race, nationality or ethnicity it matters not because that is what it means to be American. That is what we do here. Our language is a Hodge-podge of dialects even the English that was imported from England is a Latinized form of English. Our religion is a mixing of religious ideas and traditions. Our race is mixed. Our form of government is mixed. Our land mixed. Our food mixed. Our weather mixed. Our music mixed. Our dances mixed and our culture mixed. What does it mean to be mixed? It means to be American.
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23 months ago: ......our rantravers are mixed....
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: yup
23 months ago: Garbage.
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: You are in denial.
23 months ago: You need to take a good liike in the mirror. Sorry, that mirror is fractured into 10,000 pieces. Maybe try applying for government assistance. Sorry, that mirror is fractured into 10,000 pieces. Maybe try a government hospital district for your health care. Sorry, that mirror is fractured into 10,000 pieces. Hummmm, let me think. What is White you can try? Maybe being HONEST?
Out Of The Box
Out Of The Box
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23 months ago: But our martinis, shaken, not stirred.
23 months ago: Oh Oh Seven, What do you plan for that olive?
23 months ago: If you ain't mixed, you ain't alive. There are no "pure bred" and if you think you are, you better get your DNA tested so you'll know how many different parts of the planet you come from. As for being mixed culturally, you bet! We all have a bit of something from somewhere else that we use in our lives everyday, might not know what it is or where it came from but you can bet it came from somewhere else!

What else would we Americans be if we weren't mixed? Canadians? HAHAHAHAHA!
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: Thank You Six!
THE RONBOT HUNTER
THE RONBOT HUNTER
23 months ago: sixholdens

I agree with you.

Even the whites are mixed amongst themselves, some are Italian and Irish blood, some French and German, some are Spanish and English etc.

I have never met a person that was not mixed in some way.

And I have met too many that were totally mixed up too.

SO IT IS A FACT OF LIFE THAT THE WHOLE WORLD IS MIXED AND MIXED UP.

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Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: Thank You Ron
23 months ago: Mixed in background does not mean mixed in purpose.
Things must inevitably fall apart when any component of any system seeks to emphasize its its own peculiar nature above that of the function of the whole.
Strength does not come from simple diversity...strength comes from the devotion of the diverse to first recognize and then present itself subservient to something it considers greater.
And, therefore, in a real sense be willing to let go of its own peculiarity for a more beneficial purpose.
The emphasis in e pluribus unum, is that unum part.
But as long as that can be characterized as simply a quaint notion formulated by aging white european men, and not the truth that it is, the tribes that have always disdained it will continue to form their gangs in opposition.
Maybe the easily recognized and exaggerated flaws of those men can be legitimately used to undercut their posterity.
But maybe, by the same reasoning, those whose disdain is often palpable may be asked...why come, or stay...or what do you bring to the table besides a desire to soak up their legacy while holding fast to your own nationality or nativity?
Those guys, for the most part, stopped being Englishmen with a determined purpose and vengeance at the risk of their own lives and fortunes.
For better or worse their motives and results may be judged.
Rightly or wrongly, they accomplished something.
What is ridiculously transparent and weak are those who seek to believe they have entered the same arena when their own personal offense falls far short of blood, sweat, and tears...except in the service of their own imagined uniqueness.
If one does not like an America where one must deny part of their heritage or ethnicity to affirm another, then actively undertake to live in one where none of those things matter at all.
To be mixed in america really does not make one american at all.
It may, but just as surely...may not.
America is an idea...and may just be an idea whose time is past.
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: There is contempt in your words but there is also sorrow. I wouldn't be surprised to read that you have experienced much hate at the hands of those you feel are different than you. America is more than a concept Gregorie it is a place and while the experience of our forebears deserves much contemplation and reflection it does not negate one iota the experience of all Americans who have come to these sacred shores and have transcended their past and reshaped themselves into a uniquely different breed of person, apart from what was and different from what is but surely a reflection of what will be. Don't wallow in the misery of your bad experiences, embrace those who would seek to shun you as countless of Americans have done before you because isolation breeds suspicion and suspicion breeds contempt which you seem to have plenty of. This is the same America of your fathers Gregorie its just in your children s hands now and their views are not those of their grandparents.
23 months ago: News Flash Siempre. Gregorie is not off track. You would be surprised about how many non-minorities have been discriminated against. Then again, you can always pull that Black card when needed.
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: Why is it C, that when you can't find fault in my words you resort to putting words in my mouth? Who said that Gregory was off track? Who said he hasn't experienced hate at the hands of those he perceives as different? Who? You keep talking about how black I am. Have you ever seen me? I am more than just black. If you are to be fair about what I am call me mixed or call me an American but don't call me black so that you can stereotype me as the cause of your suposed descrimination. That is the problem in your words and in your manner of thinking. You can't get past the black thing. I mention black issues like I mention Irish issues or Canadian issues. I talk about conservative and liberal people with the same critical eye. Do you? No! All you care to do is paint the world according to your narrow oldschool perception. Get a grip dude! I am not ytour enemy. You can put your gun down now!
23 months ago: Oh, the humanity!
America is quickly becoming a footnote in what is left of the world's history as a failed republic that responded avidly and self destructively to the proposition that it could relentlessly indulge itself without repercussions.
The self discipline requisite for keeping appetite in check to ensure survival went out the proverbial window as the truth of this statement inevitably came to pass:
"When the people find they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic."

To justify each and every hand thrust deeply in the cookie jar there must, of course, be a credible claim of victim hood which, unfortunately, far too many political hacks are willing to indulge for their own free pass on a grab.
"I know I didn't put anything in...but my life is harder than yours!...and besides...the government said it's OK"
Enjoy these last few moments of self indulgent celebration of your "uniqueness", even as your greasy self absorption lubricates the gears of the conveyor that is about to dump you into the grinder.

I sincerely hope multicultural, multi-ethnicity, diversity and all the other crap that is simply matter of fact circumstance...but is now regarded as an anointing includes a good dose of multilinguistics...less like Dora the explorer...more like Mandarin.

You'd best be practicing "may I stay in this house if I serve as your humble butler...and yes, my wife can learn to cook Szechuan"
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: Dude! You are more bitter and resentful then I first imagined. I don't believe anything else I say could sway your self righteous vindictive rambling to be a bit less ugly but I feel that you should hear it from someone if you've never heard it before. The endless cycle of spending you refer to did not start a year ago. Nor do all the grubby greasy hands belong to the non white population that you feel has been so wronged. How is it that you help make this world and then disavow any personal responsibility for it's outcome? How is it that I speak of a diversity that was inherent in the mixing of religions, cultures, languages of our forebears and you speak of minorities on welfare? Has age made you bitter or has that horse pill of bigotry that you dole out but can't seem to swallow done this to you? You may not like the color of America present but it is no different in principle then the America of generations past. Unfortunately the blinders people like you and C got on will keep preventing you from seeing anything other than the reflection of your own misery. Let me know when you are ready to come out of your closet of self pity and loathing and I will introduce you to a brave new America. You'll be surprised to find out it isn't much different than the one you left behind for dead!
23 months ago: Where did you ever get the idea the implication was only non-whites had their hand deep down the cookie jar? I am sure manicured white fingers go right down to the bottom.
This country is being pilfered, perhaps rightly so, and you want to celebrate what happens when various penis colors going into various colored vaginas.
Whooppee.
The problem is not with the colors, the issue is that what was once a melting pot is now nothing more than a place where anyone and everyone believes their "specialness" allows for demands to be made upon a severely broken machine to continue to crank out brass rings for their delight.
In a vacuum that's precious.
In a world where a monolithic beast sits seething and ready to topple the USA, you neither see the reality or threat of it.
But, like I said...it may just be the USA's time to pass into history.
No big deal.
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: Thank You for clarifying your point Gregorie. You are not against mixing of religions and cultures just races, and that is just a minor pet peeve for you. Your major pet peeve is: "THE PILFERING OF AMERICA BY..." Well dear Gregorie I think your comments are better suited as a stand alone rant rather than comments on a totally unrelated rave. Unless that is you feel that using the name America warrants a river flow of negative emotions.
scotmanster
scotmanster
23 months ago: Your hearing what you want to hear Siempre. He is saying the color of our skin is the least of our problems. If I am wrong I am wrong but I believe the same way.

He refers to a monolithic beast that meaning satan. If you can not see that America is being pilfered not only monetarily but fundamentally then I don't expect you to understand exactly what Gregoire is trying to say to you then. He is not attacking you personally Siempre.
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: Scott,
Where do you get the idea that I think he is attacking me personaly? Did I say that? I don't recall saying that! Why are you scott, putting words in my mouth?
23 months ago: Thanks Scott.
Essentially I take issue with almost the whole of the last paragraph, and especially some of Siempre's responses.

But being mixed in America is being American. It is more than the parts. Being mixed is the whole. In applications that ask to delineate race and ethnicity the distinction is always made: One can classify his ethnicity as Hispanic but not his race as black or white. If he choose to put down a race he must omit the ethnicity of Hispanic. This fly's in the face of logic but it is because of this fear that I mentioned prior. But once again I remind you dear reader that it is an illogical fear because to be mixed is to be American. It matters not where the mixing occurs. It could be religion, culture, race, nationality or ethnicity it matters not because that is what it means to be American. That is what we do here. Our language is a Hodge-podge of dialects even the English that was imported from England is a Latinized form of English. Our religion is a mixing of religious ideas and traditions. Our race is mixed. Our form of government is mixed. Our land mixed. Our food mixed. Our weather mixed. Our music mixed. Our dances mixed and our culture mixed. What does it mean to be mixed? It means to be American.

Does just being mixed, whatever that means (for if everything is mixed what is it in contradistinction to anything that presumably doesn't exist?) and living in a "place", make one an american?
No more than being the ephemeral "pure" would make one an american?
The melting pot is going away, as the idea of the melting pot is disappearing. The national motto is now e pluribus pluribus.
I am not saying that is either good, or bad, simply what is taking place.
Again, rightly or wrongly, this is not the america of my forefathers...who only got here in the beginning of the last century.
They didn't come to spawn anchor babies, they didn't come because there was a promise of subsistence, they didn't come thinking "even English in america is mixed...so I won't bother to learn the language"...or..."in the future there'll be 10 button phones so I'll just agitate till
Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
23 months ago: Gregorie,
You are mad at the mixing of races. I get it! You see lazy people around you and they come from countries where mixing of races is comon and you see the same thing here and it pisses you off to no end because you remember a time when good christian white folks such as your self could live a good life without having to be pillfered by all the ethnic, minority hordes. What makes it worst is that now you can't even call sin by its own name without some negro or latino feeling insulted. You feel that this laziness is inbread into their mixed DNA and that the solution is to keep them out. I get it! You don't have to put it all out there like I just did for me to understand the meaning behind your words. I get it. All I'm pointing out is that you have the wrong rant. You are mad at the nation for political and financial reasons. That is one issue and it deserves its own rant. and then you are mad at people of mixed background and again you've got the wrong rant. Ylou should write your own rant that explains why mixed race people make you so mad. Becvause this essay is not about the mixing of races it is about the plurality of America. former Irish, British, Africans, Etc. fought along side each other in the revolutionary war. That is being mixed nationaly. Then different religions made their home here in the states. That is being mixed religiously. Cultures, ideas, food, languages have all mixed here in the USA not just race as you so eagerly emphasise. I am talking about all the other mixing as well so please, if you're gripe is about pillfering or race write your own rant because this rave has nothing to do with either one of those subjects!
23 months ago: (cont) my language is one of the choices."
Now, one can easily imagine that merely looking at things this way means that I am bigoted, or that I somehow resent having to push a button to hear english in america.
That doesn't matter. Maybe we should add more buttons...more "history months" for the "Mexican-american", the "Italian-american",
the "English-american", the "German-american", the "Croatian-american", the "Serbian-american", the "nonMexican Latino-american", the "Norwegian-american" etc.
Do I worry that the america I grew up in is going away?
Hardly.
But to say it is the same america of even 40 years ago, let alone of my "forefathers"...is more than a stretch.
One can say...america is fluid, and be right.
I would just say fluid inevitably flows downhill.
It's natural, it's normal.
And while folks may want to say...
"look at how america is stronger than ever before because of its embracing and celebration of diversity"
I would simply remind them...nothing is too big to fail.
And while the sun never set on the British Empire...nor could anyone imagine the passing of (all too relevantly these past few weeks even) "the glory that was Greece and the grandeur that was Rome" at one time...read the history books.
the american century had a good run...
I seriously doubt whether any will see the end of the coming century of Beijing.
In the meantime celebrate diversity, celebrate the uniqueness that is common to all men.
Celebrate the last few moments of "I am special" until it turns into "why me?"
And as the Nazi in Vonnegut's Slaughterhouse Five answered that question posed by one whom he tormented..."Why not you?"

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