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My son didn't meet all of his ''milestones'' and was placed in our school districts ECD program at 2 years of age. While the ECD program was focused only on speech therapy. My wife an I questioned the need for physical and occupational therapy.

Our concerns were brushed aside with the common statement that "he will outgrow it". We followed up with expressing our concerns to his pediatrician. His pediatrician referred us to a Physical Therapist. At one point my son developed a involuntary twitch. We were referred to a Neurologist. A MRI was taken of my sons brain and the Neurologist report was negative.

My son has always walked on his Tip Toes. He has always walked with a "high gait". The reports have always shown a dramatic "foot drop". My son has always had "high arches". He has always been easily fatigued doing simple tasks. He has never been able to "run". He has a history of "falling down".

Keep all of this information in mind as you read on.

My wife and I have struggled for 10 years trying to get someone to make a diagnosis. The progression has gotten to the point of potential disability. Last week my wife and I took our son to Shriners Hospital for Children for an intake exam. After completing the intake schedule Shriners accepted him for treatment.

After struggling for 10 years it only took Shriners 1 day to answer so many questions.

What did Shriners find?

Several items were discovered and a preliminary diagnosis (pending results of a neurological test) was discussed.

1) Spina bifida occulta - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spina_bifid...
2) Spondylolisthesis - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spondylolis...
3) CMT (Charcot-Marie-Tooth) - http://tinyurl.com/4p93f8g

The Spina Bifida and the Spondylolisthesis are confirmed on his xrays. My son is being scheduled for a neurological test called a EMG.

Electromyography - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electromyog...

Once the EMG has been performed the doctors will either confirm or rule-out CMT. At that time we will continue on with a treatment plan.

Due to the progression over the last 10 years. Major surgery is a high probability. If CMT is confirmed, it is a disease without a cure and falls into the Muscular Atrophy category. For the most part CMT is not a fatal disease. It does however affect the person for their entire life.

I can't help but to ask how many "red flags" have to be waving before the "professionals" can see them?
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Out Of The Box
Out Of The Box
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14 months ago: We'll keep you and your son in our thoughts and prayers, TCG.
14 months ago: My son is the strong one. I'm convinced that children with disabilities are the most caring people in the world. They seem to care for others more than themselves. That is a cold, hard and sad truth.
14 months ago: Cypress.

It may not be a "sad" truth.

14 months ago: Your right RED if your thinking about the thoughts of the children.

Stand back and think about that in the context of the "professionals".

Your thoughts now?
sunny2
sunny2
14 months ago: Cypress I know what you are going through. What you are saying is the truth, and I know first hand as I've been there. Children with disabilities are strong and courageous throughout. They can endure more and have a tendency to be peacemakers in life. It is so wonderful that you and your wife have the dedication and commitment to your child. All they have to know is that you are there for them. God Bless your family and most of all your little one.
14 months ago: TCG,

If you are talking "professionals" you are talking bottom line... and if it makes money for them or their pharmaceutical companies... you are a good bet, but after you are done with their medication, they seem to be done with you.
14 months ago: I have a buddy who puts people in custom wheelchairs.

When the young children come through, the parents are there cried out of tears. But the children are as happy as anybody in the world. And they remain as happy as anybody in the world.

There is a wonderful lesson there.

G-d bless you and your family.
14 months ago: TCG. I hope for the best for your son and your family.
14 months ago: The missed flags are infuriating to me, so I can only imagine what they are like to you and your family.

Still, it's good to be on the right path.

You've been blessed with a loving son, just like he's been blessed with a loving family.
justlogic
justlogic
14 months ago: I really feel your son and you on this.
What does it take to get so called professionals to open their eyes?

I think you were right with earlier comments that this hasn't gotten the attention it deserves.

This article could be extremely eye opening and helpful to other parents out there.

I am going to tweet this up and I suggest others do the same, you will be helping an unknown but very likely high number of people.
justlogic
justlogic
14 months ago: This is a ECD information link

http://web.worldbank.org/WBSITE/EXTERNAL...
14 months ago: I appreciate all of the kind words. It was not and is not my intend to beg for best wishes.

The intent was to get the word out to others that have the need to know.
Altruist
Altruist
Eugene, OR
14 months ago: I am sorry for your son's and the rest of the families suffering.

This experience indicates a weakness in our medical system. We rely too much on the individual knowledge of the doctors. Medical information has grown exponentially and there is no way that any individual (even House) can know everything.

What we need is a nationwide computer system that doctors can access that will help with diagnostics and with knowledge of drugs, their uses, interactions, and the best treatments.

One reason medical costs are so high is that doctors being human, can only make educated guesses at causes of maladies. They over use MRI's and CAT scans etc. because they often want to be certain that they making the correct guess. Having a national database, and intelligent computer like Watson with a good search algorithm, can easily judge symptoms and request further tests that would zero in on causes.

It would also reduce costs if doctors who used suggested treatment protocols could be shielded from malpractice suites.
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14 months ago: Whoa, just a minute... you did say now they only have bits and peices of a patients reports? Are you suggesting a national database for to share personal medical information? I don't think Altruist was talking about that kind of a computer system. I think he was talking about a diagnostic dataset.
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amishking
amishking
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Auburn, NY
14 months ago: Cypress,
Our thoughts are with you and your family, anything we can do as a community, just ask.
I cannot begin to imagine the frustration you must be feeling.
All the best,
AK.
14 months ago: TCG,

Thanks for the wake-up-call... my Mom was an invalid with MS for over 30 years.... it is no easy thing dealing with diseases that incapacitate. It is a pity that the system is designed to be more of a business than a public service... if National Security has central data bases... the medical system should too... but I fear that unless we yell and put up a stink, we don't see much action.

My brother has a child with CF, and is really struggling to work a couple of jobs and still be their for his family... more and more we are going to need to lean on each other in order to just make it. But, that's not all bad.

[Feel free to slap me up-side the head anytime... you know I need it !:]

Thanks for sharing man, our prayers are for your family...
...may God's richest blessing and healing be on your family in Jesus Name.
14 months ago: What is the picture of?
14 months ago: I have a stupid little monitor, and cannot make out who or what kind of plane that is.... I am at the street out-reach building we have... let me know.
14 months ago: The picture is my son (and a P-51) at Ellington Field making a tour of vitnage WWII aircraft before a flight on a B-17 with his Grandfather (WWII B-17 radioman) and myself.

14 months ago: Thanks TCG... when I get back home to my big-screen I'll take a look...
but what I want to know is where is your mug?
14 months ago: Looks like you have a great son ...it would be great for him to get his pilot's licence! I like what AK said about us working together on this site to do all we can to get the word out and do what we can once you know what it is going to take for treatment.

Thanks brother for your transparentness... again our prayers,
...and our actions, are with your family.
14 months ago: That sounds like the definition of excellent.
14 months ago: TCG,

Some of your son's symptoms are similar to a young man in our town, I don't think they have diagnosed him at all with anything... not that he is a bit older he is more active and gets around better, he has discovered Facebook (I know, the little sinner), and his network of friends have really been a support to him. When I ran a youth center my "main-man" was a very cool young dude with Spina bifida... Robin was our Security, our crowd controller and resident go-to man... all from a wheel chair! If he couldn't wheel to where he was going... he would crawl... this determined man was an inspiration to everyone. I hear he is in Grand Prairie, Alberta, training for the Olympics.... BASKETBALL!
14 months ago: Where is my mug? You really want to see the lean mean machine? I'm not sure all of the fat old men can handle it. If you so desire. I'll see what I can dig up and change the picture on this post.
sunny2
sunny2
14 months ago: I'm with Truthbrary. I want to see your mug up there.
Sunny
14 months ago: There you go. I would be the 6'5'' person. My son is now 5'2'' - 120 lbs at 10. I suspect he will be a big boy.
14 months ago: Hey TCG,

You aren't as ugly as some make you out to be... actually you're a smart looking dude...
...just don't get 'phobic' on me... your son has a lot to look "up" to!
14 months ago: 'phobic'? Me? Not likely.
sunny2
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14 months ago: Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
14 months ago: Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh?
sunny2
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14 months ago: Okay.....Adorable picture. Now I can't get mad at anything you say.
sunny2
sunny2
14 months ago: I bet your boy had a fun day to remember. He has a great big smile. My Dad was WWII Vet and the grand kids loved him. That is real special day to be able to share.
sunny2
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14 months ago: Truthbrary - You had said your Mom suffered with MS. That is so difficult. My daughter had mentioned to me that someone told her today that there is a cure for it, but it is not being used. This is all I know and heard. My cousin is suffering from this disease, but when she had her first child the symptons disappeared. I've been around disabilities all my life, and I am aware that if you don't have enough medical insurance, from my experience, you don't ever get the proper medical care. It is a big business in the US. Doctor's make a lot of money in this Country. In other Countries they don't.
Out Of The Box
Out Of The Box
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14 months ago: The MS is off topic here I know, but yes, there is a cure for MS. It has been around since the Bible days at least.

I've been trying to get the word out for almost eight years, or shortly after my wife was first diagnosed with MS. Now it seems "science" is finally admitting the truth, but of course it will take them decades to confirm what thousands of people already know.

About three months after a normal pregnancy, my wife started experiencing numbness, which started in her chest, and gradually worked its way all the way to her toes. Then she started getting the "pins and needles" sensations in different parts of her body. Finally, one whole side of her face went numb, hanging slack like it was dead, and her left eye looked to the left constantly while the other eye looked normal. That's when I convinced her to let me take her to the doctor. (She hates hospitals.) After three days of tests, culminated by a spinal fluid exam, she was diagnosed with MS. She was treated with a mega dose of steroids and sent home.

For the next week, everyone I saw I asked to pray for her. A prayer network was in place so fast I was amazed. Whole churches dedicated prayers and kind thoughts, and there were literally thousands of people praying for her recovery. Shortly afterward, out of the blue, she asked me to get her some wine. It seemed that every night she would develop a craving for dark red wine, and would have three or four glasses right before going to sleep. During the day, she was able to take care of the baby, do housework and such, and then every night when I got home, she would get a little tipsy on wine, and go to sleep. That went on for about a year.

That's been 7 years ago. Two things in red wine have been suggested lately that might cure MS. One of them is histamine. Histamine treatments have been used in the treatment of MS since the 1950's. The N.P. that has been administering them claims an 85% cure rate, using a topical histamine cream. The other thing in red wine is resveratrol, which has been shown to be almost a miracle in itself.

I believe God put the desire for the red wine in her. She hasn't had an episode in 7 years, and followup exams show no progression of the disease, in fact there has been marked healing of the lesions in brain.

Her neurologists won't believe she has been cured, and are constantly trying to get her to use the deadly concoctions they get from Frankenstein's lab. "There is no cure for MS." they say. For awhile they nearly had her convinced that she wasn't really cured, but even her lack of faith didn't bring on any new flare up.
sunny2
sunny2
14 months ago: Box...I think the worse thing any doctor can say to a patient is that there is no cure, and it is hopeless to even think that. I don't know how anyone can endure this disease without hope.
14 months ago: I think that "cure" isn't in the list of acceptable words that are politically correct... nor is it something that they are looking for. Money isn't made from cures... we need to be hooked and penned, caged and dependent on the chemicals and treatments only "they" have and control. After "they" are done with you... they go onto the next "host".
sunny2
sunny2
14 months ago: That is exactly what they want just to make their money off of the sick. I worked in a company where they were selling medication at the time, and it was just out on the market.
They weren't even considering the patient just pushing the pills. People get dependent on it because they hope it will work.

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