I'll update this rave by posting this little bit I've titled: Resorting to Stereotypes
If a Chinese man say's hello do you respond by clasping your hands and bowing?
What if a Jew drops a penny do you pick it up and check for pinch marks?
Let's say a Hispanic walks by do you check to see if his clothes are wet?
If a Red haired freckled faced Irish lad passes by do you check him for potatoes?
Are Germans checked for swastikas?
Are southern white Americans tracked back to only pick up trucks?
If you have answered no to any of the above then you should not have to ask if a black man who volunteers that he was quietly listening to Young MC was wearing saggy pants or exposing his underwear. On the other hand if you answered yes then it does not surprise me that you would follow that line of questioning. It is called resorting to stereotypes.
BTW: This is a rave about how I endured her humiliating behavior not a rant about a bigoted old lady. Do you know the difference? Can you explain it?