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Why men will always be in charge

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This is inspired by some annoying females on another site who want to remain ignorant by choice.

Why are men in charge? Why do men have all the power?

It's not because it's 'normal' or 'natural', I feel it's because too many stupid females are too busy degrading themselves and trying to appeal to men to focus on being treated better or having full respect. The crazy thing is, point out the truth and these same females get so mad. I'm a female myself, so I notice stuff that might not be so obvious to the guys.

Take a good look. In the cases of many females (TOO many), EVERYTHING they do comes back to pleasing men, appealing to men, and degrading themselves for men. The crazy thing is, it starts so early and it's so ingrained they don't even realize it.

Examples:

EDUCATION: Lots of females dumb themselves down in school. They pretend not to know something when they really do. They let guys interrupt them when they speak, and if a guy contradicts an answer they gave, they don't argue, or at least not as much as if it were another female. They're more likely to let guys answer the questions and get much of the credit and glory, while they do most of the work. They flirt instead of focus. They keep their interests in math and science hidden. They don't go after certain activities. They stand on the sidelines while the guys are getting all the attention and praise, and WHY? Back in the day (long time ago), some insecure, stupid men had their fragile egos cracked by females who surpassed them in every way. So, instead of stepping up THEIR game, what did these stupid men do? Start convincing everyone they could that guys are better than girls, that females shouldn't excel above guys, and that excellence wasn't very lady-like and that females who were great were wrong. They even started giving more attention to the dumb females and shunning the smart and intelligent ones, which made the smart females, instead of tell the idiots about themselves, hide their intelligence. Think about it: a man is more likely to be praised for his brains or personality, a woman mainly for her looks. Enough people believed it, and now society thinks men are smarter than women and better than them at everything. The truth is, we're all equal, with few exceptional individuals. Shoot, just look at history ('HIS-story?' Already geared toward men)!!! How come when there's a female leader or ruler, people know more negative things about her, but when it's a man, it's mostly good? How come most people can't name any female inventors, or anything invented by females? I'll give you a freebie - windshield wipers were invented by a WOMAN, who was told by a bunch of MEN that her idea was stupid. Know what she did? She disguised herself as a man and submitted her idea, and now every vehicle has wipers.

FOOD & EATING: Think of commercials and advertisements. Think of the times you were in a restaurant. If you pay attention, you'll notice something. Many females, when in public or around guys, will eat less. They'll also take smaller bites. Some will barely touch any food. In commercials and the media most of the time they're not shown eating (food will be in front of them or near them, or they'll hold a fork or spoon with food on it, but rarely will you see them put food in their mouths and enjoy as much as men). WHY? Back in the day, some stupid men, with fragile egos, were threatened by females who could eat more food than them. So what did the idiots do? Start convincing people that eating and enjoying food fully wasn't very lady-like. They gave all their attention to the females who didn't eat, which made the hearty ones do the same, and now when you see females and guys in mixed company, you're more likely to see the guys eat, but the females sip drinks.

CLOTHING & ADORNMENT: This one in particular ticks me off. Females who constantly cripple themselves and hide their appearance, and basically have a lower quality of life, to appeal to men. I know that make up and cosmetics have been used in practically every culture and society since humans started looking at themselves, but in more Western nations, like in the United States and Europe, make-up as we know it today was originally worn by prostitutes and female escorts. It was a way for them to distinguish themselves from more "respectable" females and an advertisement of "Hey!! Come screw me!". In modern terms, make-up as we know it was for sluts and whores. But what happened? Men started giving more attention to the 'loose' women, which made the rest of the females jealous, so instead of fussing at the men for going after walking toilets, they started copying their appearance. It's still happening today. Why do you think boob jobs are so popular? Men liked the fake breasts of the strippers and prostitutes, and it made other females jealous, instead of making the men examine themselves. Speaking of strippers and prostitutes, look at the shoes they wear. Those shoes are called "Hooker Heels" because originally only 'hookers' and strippers wore them. But now you see females all over wearing them. They're horrible for the body, throw the person off balance, increase injuries, and cripple females. Guys don't wear them, and that should be a sign that they're bad, as guys are more likely to dress for comfort and function than appearance and 'sex-appeal'. It's a modern-day form of Chinese Foot Binding, meant to cripple the women for the appeal of men. It started with slight heels and wedges in women's shoes, and morphed into women walking on stilts. It's SUBMISSION, for goodness sake!!

HAIR: Why are so many females obsessed with having long hair? Men like it, that's why. Back in the day (and EVERYTHING starts 'back in the day'), when men would go around killing each other face-to-face and hand-to-hand, they noticed quickly that long hair was easier to grab, which is of course a BIG No-No if you're on the receiving end of the assault. The men cut their hair. But the men LIKED the power they gained by grabbing hair. So what did they start doing? Praising the women who had the longer hair, telling them they were more feminine and beautiful and desirable, which made the shorter-haired women jealous, and fast forward to today and hair is a multi-BILLION dollar industry, with probably 90% of all the business coming from females. See, instead of telling the men to grow their own hair if they like long hair so much, the women just went along with it. There's another, more sinister part to the hair issue. What can you do with long hair? Grab hit and hold the person down. Back in the day, when beating and raping women was more accepted, grabbing a woman's hair was the first part of an attack (hold her down and she can't escape or get very far). Make women place their identities mostly in their hair, and what happens if that hair is cut? That's right, shame and humilitation. Why do you think hair-cutting is STILL a form of punishment to women in parts of the world? Why do you think many females would rather be ill than lose their hair? It's DOMINATION!!

WEIGHT & EXERCISE: I don't care if someone is fat and it doesn't determine health or if someone is attractive, but I KNOW I'm not the only one who noticed this trend. Why is it almost a sin for a female to be heavy, but no big deal if a man is the size of a car? Think I'm making it up? Look at the media. In most TV shows and movies, all the women are thin and most of the guys look like trolls. More females should be outraged at the blatant discrimination, but they go along with it. They will starve themselves to oblivion just to appeal to men. WHY? Men started giving the skinny girls all the attention, which made the meatier girls feel bad. THEN, the men got the females to turn on each other. Why do you think we have terms like "Fatass" and "Skinny ****"? NO COINCIDENCE. It's gotten so bad that women have even started degrading themselves sexually and trying to pass it off as 'exercise', claiming a boost in self esteem and confidence and empowerment. Dancing on poles. Lap dances. Chairs and the 'Flirty Girl Fitness' series. They got jealous of the strippers getting attention, so decided to copy. It always goes back to pleasing men. HOW IN THE WORLD IS IT EMPOWERING OR A BOOST TO A FEMALE'S CONFIDENCE OR SELF-ESTEEM TO DEGRADE HERSELF AND TURN INTO A SLUT FOR MEN??!! I just kills me how some females actually believe being slutty is a GOOD thing. Have they actually paid close ATTENTION to strippers? They don't really HAVE confidence OR self-esteem OR power. It's all just a front. They don't like to admit this half the time, but as a female, I can see the truth.

WORK & LIFE & CAREERS: Why are so many females so darn eager to set their goals aside if it will please a man?! Meet a guy, get married (or not), pop out a child, and suddenly they want to be 'Stay-At-Home Moms'. It's absurd, as men don't do this NEARLY as much as women. Or sometimes, they'll leave the workforce because their men wanted them to (which should be a red flag, but isn't a lot). I'm not trying to disrespect other people's decisions or lives or motherhood, but it really makes me wonder. If all you wanted to do was end up staying home and raising kids, why even bother to go to school or get a good job in the first place? It seems like such a waste, especially since once the kids get into school, you're at home doing very little. Unless, you have a business at home, which is really cool to do. What's up with so many females becoming meek in the workforce? If some insecure men start claiming they're too 'difficult' they start to clam up and lower themselves and become high-paid secretaries. Ladies, stop that! Show how great you are and then YOU can be the boss!!

If I start on the subject of 'society' or list more examples, this rant will never end.

Look, I'm not bashing men OR women. I'm not saying one gender is better or worse than the other. What I AM saying is that it's high time for females everywhere to WAKE UP and stop being complacent so as not to upset men. Stop lowering yourselves! Stop degrading yourselves!! Stop dumbing yourselves down! Stop handicapping yourselves! Stop lowering your quality of life, or just plain putting it on hold, for men!! Stop attacking each other thinking it makes men happy!!

People need to get a clue and the genders need to adopt the best traits of each other instead of one group just copying the worst traits of the other.
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Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
28 months ago: I’ve also noticed that male dominance begins at home on the mothers lap. I can’t begin to count the times I’ve seen mom’s hold their boys and girls to different standards. The boys are allowed to be lazy, sleep in, be spoon fed, not clean up after themselves, do less choirs. They are allowed to be aggressive and violent. All things which are inexcusable in a civilized society. Boys grow up to be men. If a mom does not teach her baby boy to be a responsible lad while he is young then he will be a sexist chauvinist as a man. It is that simple.
Altruist
Altruist
Eugene, OR
28 months ago: Wonderful Rant! I think you are selling women short though when you say women are equal to men. Actually women have to be much smarter to be able to pretend to be dumb. As Ginger Roger said, she has to do everything Fred Astaire did, only backwards and in heels. Women have to be twice as effective and productive to make it in industry.

I don't think men and women are equal in all things. Men are stronger with upper body strength but women are stronger physically and endurance wise, and can control pain better so they can have babies. Women are better at nuturing, emoting and communicating. Men are better at fighting, which brings me back to the title question.

Men control everything because they believe might makes right, although women often control the men making war with their feminine wiles.

Culturally, women have been oppressed by thousands of years of dominance by the patriarchal Abrahamic religions (Judaic, Christian, and Muslim) which in turn determined the laws and government structure which favored men.

Don't bend to fashion, wear sensible shoes, forget the make up, and be strong physically. If men don't appreciate honesty and intelligence it is their loss.

THE RONBOT HUNTER
THE RONBOT HUNTER
28 months ago: Locs4Lyfe

YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!!

It is about time that men are told the truth.

MOST MEN are immature babies and because an aggressive child gets more attention, he thinks he is better.

It would be nice for you to teach these truths, in a class room for both men and women.

I have seen these facts that you list, and wished to find a woman strong enough for me to stand.

But all I have found were timid fools that would not be themselves.

I have looked far and wide for your kind of woman, and would pay for an introduction to find one.

Ever since I was a child I pushed around grown men and told men ten times my size, what to do or not do.

I was always attracted to the **** type. But found that they were not really mature but, a baby acting aggressively and not really a WOMAN.

A real strong woman is just as hard to find as a real strong man.

We are rare, and both know that we need each other to survive.

I always tell my friends "don't marry beneath you". Get some one you can respect.

Be yourself and don't pretend.

If she does not like what she sees now, she won't like what she learns later.

Women should never pretend, and should always live for themselves first.

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28 months ago: Being the burly one that I am, I will invite any lazy female to come out and grab a shovel to dig a ditch in 100 degrees of full sun during August in Texas. Funny how the equal pay for equal work will preclude the "weaker" sex from performing under the required "Male" work standards.

It was a nice Pro-NOW slanted rant until the wussies chimed in though.

Don't feel bad Locs. None of them knows how to get a callus on the hand. Well, maybe they have one idea.
THE RONBOT HUNTER
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28 months ago: Cypress Gang:

You are presuming that all men can do heavy manual labor -- rights?

Then you would be wrong, as not all women can do heavy lifting either.

Not every one was meant for any job.

But when it comes to brains, women are more than equal.

Many hide their superiority of intelligence, to avoid hurting their "baby-minded" men, that they have to deal with.

So called "MEN" have to accept that this is no longer the wild west.

Fairness and decency should be given to all that deserve it.

If a Lady is qualified, then she should have a chance at equal pay.

In return, women have to stop letting men presume that they are less than the brutes, that call themselves men.

Women had put up with us animals, for too long, and now some of you "near-men" have to grow up and be a real man.

A real man is NOT a brute, or behaves like a brute, but he is sure enough within himself, that he does NOT need to prove himself to any one.

He is so sure of himself that he can show kindness and many other soft emotions, without fear or embarrassment.

Women can look at a man and from far away see his confidence.

But it will take a while for his true character, to come out and show the real guy inside.

Women are constantly disappointed when they date a guy and find out, he is not even sure of himself, because he pretended to be a real man, and exposed the child within.

What I say is this, be kind, fair and decent to all women, they deserve a break for putting up with near-men for too long.

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28 months ago: Nope. I was asking whether you could do what the females can't or won't. I was asking why the male grunts that do the dirty jobs day in and day out get paid half of what the wussies in air conditioning get paid. I was asking if you are ready to play the fairness game across all lines.

If not then your point is moot.
THE RONBOT HUNTER
THE RONBOT HUNTER
28 months ago: Cypress Gang:

many times the male grunts do not have the training or the brains to work in nice air conditioned offices.

So, if theY don't, then why should the employer have to pay them the same?

As I said before, NOT everyone can do any job.

I am 66 years old, and no grunt can do my job unless he has brains.

NOT everyone is equal. But if they have equal training and equal ability, then why should a woman be paid less?

Look at the education, training and ability and preparation, and then see if these two people should or should not be paid the same.

TO BE FAIR IS NOT THAT HARD.

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markbyrn
markbyrn
 Moderator
28 months ago: TCG,
...Being the burly one that I am, I will invite any lazy female to come out and grab a shovel to dig a ditch...

Assuming level education and training required, I agree fully with you and the NOW definition of equal has been twisted to compare apples to oranges because they know that women aren't running enmasse to traditionally male occupations that involve hard physical labor.
Altruist
Altruist
Eugene, OR
28 months ago: I really enjoyed having a post from a woman and would like to hear more from the "gentle sex". We guys can speculate on what motivates women, but it's always better to hear from the women.

There are a lot of women that have passed the strenuous fireman's test which includes all kinds of heavy lifting, carrying, climbing, and pulling with something like a 100 lb wt. on your back. I have also known female cement workers and garbage men that can work just as hard as a man, but I can see why women wouldn't want to be a ditch digger. You find a lot of the burly types digging ditches because they don't have the brains to get a job that will get them out of the sun. Been there and it bulks you up but don't pay worth beans.
28 months ago: To make sure I understand. The common statement by most here is that males lack the brains and females are smarter.

You don't find those beliefs to be somewhat degrading, discriminating or sexist?

I thought I could smoke you guys out.
THE RONBOT HUNTER
THE RONBOT HUNTER
28 months ago: Because women are as smart as men, does not mean that all men are less smart than women.

Some are educated or trained and some are not.

And there is also, the intelligence called "common-sense".

Here I find that an education, diploma or a degree is no indicator of common-sense.

It is MY belief that too many men don't have the common-sense, it takes to get along with the opposite sex or for that matter anyone different than they.

Locs4Lyfe
Has indicated to us men that for whatever reasons, women have been forced to act with no common-sense, just to be able to get along with stupid inferior men, who in a lot of cases were not worth the bother.

So, if you could see the effort that women take to please us. Then why don't the inferior men make the effort to please them in return?

Answer, because they lack both brains and common-sense.

If the brutes of the world would have common-sense, this world would be a happier place.

TREAT WOMEN WITH RESPECT AND WE ALL WIN.

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