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What's Wrong With You People, MANNERS!

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TheLegendTomWing
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Philadelphia, PA
Okay, this was sparked from a little run-in I had while at brunch today. The young man in front of me in line told the woman what he wanted, she served him, and he began to walk away, which prompted me to say “You’re Welcome!” and then for him to give me a dirty look.

There are a few things you should be doing, just because it’s good manners!!!!

1. SAY THANK YOU, it’s not hard, open the hole in your face that God gave you.

2. PLEASE! If you want something, it isn’t hard to say please. If you are one of those people who don’t say it, odds are you probably already sound like a jerk, so don’t make it worse.

3. Don’t chew with you mouth open, you face is probably gross enough as it is, I don’t need a front row seat for the beginning of your digestive cycle.

4. Hold The Door, men this is mostly for you, but ladies too! If you walk up to a door and there’s a woman there, open it for her. See? How hard was that? And if you see someone coming behind you as you are walking inside/outside, hold the door. I shouldn’t have to get a knee replacement because you couldn’t wait two seconds to keep the door from slamming.

5. STOP YELLING. If you are in a restaurant, or anywhere that isn’t the DNC, you don’t need to yell! I couldn’t care less who Bonnie slept with or what color underwear you stepped on the way to the bathroom this morning, shut up, just shut UP! Use your indoor voice. 6 inch voices PLEASE!

6. Cell Phones. Amishking mentioned this one a tad, if you are around other people, turn it off. The world, believe it or not, did survive for billions of years without cell phones. You can live without text messaging for five minutes while I finish my thought, kthx. This also goes for when you are DRIVING.

7. Language: I should not have to hear your foul language, period. It’s profanity, not punctuation. If you can’t think of something nice to say, then shut up about it.

8. Turn Signals. USE THEM WHILE DRIVING &^%$@^#, I know, I know, #7, but driving is the only exception to the rule. USE YOUR TURN SIGNAL OR I WILL PLOW THROUGH YOUR CAR, MORON! Plus, odds are they are they are violating #6 too.

9. Do not talk about your sex life. Why? Because I don’t care, that’s why, They have sex therapists for that. If you’re feeling that insignificant, buy a red convertible. Otherwise, shut it.

10. Hand in your pants. Guys, I don’t understand it. If you feel the need to play with yourself, go away, I am sick and tired of seeing some kid with his hand in his pants and a huge grin on his face. Stop it, stop it now! If I were a parent, and my kid did that, I’d shoot him, i would take no prisoners.

There are many other annoying, common sense, manners based things that have been getting under my skin lately, but this is probably the top ten (that I can think of). Anyways, put your own in the comments if you wish.

Thanks For Reading, Cheers!

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34 months ago: Dude! Your on a tirade today. What's up? I thought I was the only one that was over the edge. OK by me.
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: Ohhh, stupid college students who think they are on top of the world! just wait, why they are miserable behind a desk in ten years crunching numbers, then i'll feel better!
34 months ago: Don't apologize! It's not needed. I'm still waiting on a final answer for the otherside on Mars. I'm holding the last (best) link to slap them in the face.
34 months ago: Dude, you violate #5, 6, and 7 with impunity while you are at home. They say that charity begins at home--well, so do manners. #5--yelling--you are Mr. Loud personified. You announce your presence even before entering a room, regardless of any conversations taking place therein. I recall some free period monitor mentioning to your sister, "Oh no. Not another loud Wing!"

#6--your cell phone is permanently attached to you. You cannot live, bathe, sleep, eat or drive without it.

#7--foul language. Dude, at home you are the worst. I think you know this.

Here's the upside: If you wrote this Rant perhaps you yourself woke up and smelled the coffee! Maybe you have been born again! I will rejoice when you come back to the fold a changed person.

I am now going to print out your Rant and mount it permanently to your bedroom wall.

TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: Thanks Mom,

As for being born again, i would rather stick hot needles in my eyes.

:)
34 months ago: Hey mommywing. Question. Just so I know how to read your future posts. Was that post sarcasim or ridicule?

TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: both.
34 months ago: Thank you! I totally hear you! And to add to it, what about posting etiquette!? I posted a rave about 10 suggestions to help conserve so we can help those, or even help us to not end up like those, whose governments have to shut off the electricity or water for extended periods of time to conserve. It's EARTH DAY. And what did I get....a bunch of rude, immature responses! It's for a cause. If you don't want to do it fine, but they don't have to be ****'s! OK, well thanks for letting me vent on your site. I thought it was appropriate since you are ranting about etiquette.
34 months ago: p.s. I wonder who that was??? that left the rude responses. Ironic, isn't it?
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: Haha, i clarified my comment, i think you'll find it was with the same tone as your happy earth day theme :)

as for the rude immature people, you'll have to excuse us, we've been venting too!

As for me i am sitting in my room with no lights on as we speak. saving the planet, one light bulb less at a time!
34 months ago: He did clarify. And I did apologize. I guess we both had a bad day ha? lol. We'll I guess that's why this site is good cuz I know after ranting like I did, I feel better. I'm sure you do too! LOL! Sorry again. ;0)
34 months ago: Oh Yeah! mommywing will fit in good here! Bring it mommy!

Tom... you liar... why do that? Tell her your running 4 computers and can't afford to run lights! My, my, my!
34 months ago: In response to The Cypress Gang: My post was neither purely sarcasm nor purely ridicule. It was the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, so help me God.

I love TheLegendTomWing. He's the best. He's the brightest. He's the best looking. His manners, however, could use some work. Notice I only complained about #5, 6, 7.

And he NEVER leaves the seat up, thank you TheLegendTomWing.
34 months ago: Whoa! Tom has a mommywingster. I'm loving it!
34 months ago: I'm a mommywingstress, not --ster, I'll have you know. Actually, it should be Mommywingstress.

Did you think he was beamed down? Of course he has a mommy and I am SHE.
34 months ago: ER... that would be a MY BAD.. I'll go hide my head in shame now.
34 months ago: LMAO! I love it! Tom, no offense, but you got gotten by your mom!

Mommywing, no offense to you either! It's great that your on here checking up on your son. And that you have a good enough relationship with him to post on his blog. Loved the post you last wrote to Cypress. I kinda had a feeling from the very second post you wrote that you were his mom.

But you both have to admit....it was kinda funny.
34 months ago: I don't think anything about eating dirt is funny.

PUTTTHHHHUUUUUAAAA! Now I have to brush my teeth again.
34 months ago: Brendalyn, I'm not 'checking up on him.' He actually calls my attention to posts he thinks I'd be interested in. He's too old for me to be lurking around in cyber space, sniffing out mischief. But hey, if you are trying to entice him to a Kmart bathroom and abscond with him--I'll be on ya. I'm a pit bull that cooks, when it comes to my kids.

I'm just a PITA for my scion. I the one he loves to hate and loves again.

And his manners have hopefully evolved appropriately.
34 months ago: Holy YIKES! If I wasn't married! Another PITA babe..
Hubba hubba... loveing it wingstess...
34 months ago: Are we off-topic? And it's babetress to you.
34 months ago: Sorry mommy... I was off track..Siempre and I are working the useless S post... Hey join in! That would be fun.
Hey everyone, let's all make useless post comments on the S pages. Sorry I have to fly and dump another load.
Come find us and join in. Have a good laugh.
34 months ago: TheLegendTomWing--can you email me off-blog and explain what an S post is and how I can join in the fun.
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: Go to: http://rantrave.com/Rant/Clear-Planet-or-Fascist-Theocracy.aspx

And just follow the conversation!
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: And mom, you can use my name for christ's sake!

I think they know, except now i'm gonna get propositioned in some K-Mart bathroom, great.
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: Do you think it's poor Etiquette to crazy-post the S-people?
34 months ago: That was too much fun... I'm still cleaning up the mess over here. Too bad nobody else saw it.

Conservatives RULE!
34 months ago: We were. We just extended it out over a large area to cover. Sorry you had to spend all that time cleaning up you email log. We will warn you next time. Say 5 minutes to cancel email alerts. Sound fair?
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: Sounds good to me, ahha Siempre's email got NAILED!
34 months ago: Hey Tom. Is Mommy watching or can I just say it?
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: SAY IT!
34 months ago: The
34 months ago: funny
34 months ago: thing
34 months ago: here
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34 months ago: are
34 months ago: convinced
34 months ago: you
34 months ago: can
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: OH No! These people are declaring war!

Cypress, what do we do now?
34 months ago: make
34 months ago: chanologists
34 months ago: go
34 months ago: away
34 months ago: with
34 months ago: annoying
34 months ago: threadspam
34 months ago: when
34 months ago: having
34 months ago: good
34 months ago: time
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34 months ago: annoying
34 months ago: you
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34 months ago: do
34 months ago: best!
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: ugh.

Welcome to the party.
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: MY MOM's GONNA PUT YOU IN TIME OUT!
34 months ago: There once was a Drill Sargeant that spit in a recuits eye.
The recruit didn't even blink. The Drill Sargeant screamed at him the following question. Hey MF how dare you not blink when I spit in your eye. The recruit screamed back. Yes, Drill Sargeant. But, if I blinked the rest of these MF'ers would be dead. Needless to say the recruit made it through boot.
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: Cypress, i like you, but please don't spit in my eye.
34 months ago: What is real funny. The RR crew can disable their email accounts and logins. They want WAR. They are too stupid to know they have already lost. I would be looking for another home.
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: well put Cypress!
34 months ago: We'd have gone away as soon as the scientologists took off (or stopped posting about how L. Ron Hubbard can help your sex life). But you two are so cute with your "RAWR GET OFFA MY SITE" ranting it's hard to stay away!
34 months ago: Tom? is there a Gnat buzzing around? How does it seenm that mooseGnat would still be here even after the S took off? I'm concerned that there is now another G-S Gnat.
Funny.
34 months ago: Tom? is there a Gnat buzzing around? How does it seenm that mooseGnat would still be here even after the S took off? I'm concerned that there is now another G-S Gnat.
Funny.
Coloranter Raver
Coloranter Raver
Denver, CO
34 months ago: My opinion only, not that it matters much, is that...
(a) you catch more flies with honey than sour milk,
(b) cats who are ignored tend to disappear more rapidly than those who are fed

Now, as for Mrs. Wing, the fact that your outstanding son took your critique so well in this public forum is a sign of his good manners. Apples do not fall far from the tree. Bravo to Tom and Mom for having the courage to engage this topic so maligned in our culture.
34 months ago: An author wrote an article about manners. He then preceded to go to someone elses thread and spam it. Oh what sweet irony.
34 months ago: I guess nobody here knows (catch flies with honey) that a good piled of ripe steaming dung will attract more flies.

Cats you ignore just hang around. I know because I have been begging the wife to let me shot one for 8 months.

It was sweet payback. thanks for your help.
34 months ago: Man did I miss out or what? Mommywing already got all the laughs. Cypress and Tom already put in all the quirky remarks. And Coloranter cornered the words or wisdom. For crying out loud I can't even graffiti the joint as Anawnamoose already beat me to it! Oh well great post Tom!
AGoodMinute29
AGoodMinute29
Havertown, PA
34 months ago: I like your post. Manners are crucial which is why most of us are taught them at such young ages. Some of the first things that our parents try to teach us are to mind our manners. In addition, when we see someone with poor social skills the parent is typically the one who gets blamed. For example, growing up, my parents made it a point to ingrain it into my head that chewing with your mouth open in disgusting. Now that is one of my BIGGEST pet-peeves. That goes hand-in-hand with talking when your mouth is full. For Pete's sake!, just wait till your finished chewing!! Not only is it dangerous, but its gross. When you're speaking I want to focus on what you're saying, not your food, or whether I'll have to use the Heimlich maneuver or not.
My roommate has the worst habit of chewing with her mouth open. Its absolutely disgusting! (especially when shes eating noisy things, like apples). Anyway, I'm sure that she gets it from her parents. Even if she doesn't, it was their responsibility to correct her.
On the other hand, there are also exceptions. There are such things as lost causes.
As for Tom, you should pay more attention to #4. I can't count on two hands the number of times you've let the door slam in my face.
34 months ago: "I know because I have been begging the wife to let me shot one for 8 months."

Your verb is in the past tense. Have you therefore already shot the cat?
34 months ago: TO 200, AND BEYOND!
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34 months ago: 100!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: HAha, you guys are a hoot!

I think Coloranter is going to be disappointed with all of us!
Coloranter Raver
Coloranter Raver
Denver, CO
34 months ago: Tom, you are correct, sir, I am disappointed. Nonetheless, some good points have been made.
TheLegendTomWing
TheLegendTomWing
 Administrator
Philadelphia, PA
34 months ago: Yep, plus now we know that spamming S-peoples posts doesn't work, plus it hides productive comments on productive posts.

We all learned a valuable lesson.
Alexander Frost
Alexander Frost
Rolla, MO
34 months ago: Excellent rant Tom! Each item on the list could be elaborated upon endlessly. It seems like everyday, people become more rude and self centered. I'm especially down on cell phones. People end up talking on them all the time and never talk to people they are with, then they drive around talking on them, never using turn signals. That's just plain rude. Hopefully the microwaves are turning their brains into scrambled eggs and they won't be around long, good riddance.
23 months ago: *lol* This is all so true!! I thought I was the only one who noticed more rude behavior.

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