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Porn: The Putrefaction of America

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The Pornification of American Culture... "It is easier to get pornography than to avoid it. We have protected the rights of those who wish to live in a pornified culture while altogether ignoring the interests of those who do not." 2005 book, Pornified: How Pornography Is Damaging Our Lives, Our Relationships, and Our Families
by Pamela Paul
http://enrichmentjournal.ag.org/201103/2...

What has Porn added to our lives that we couldn't live without? I have done the research, there is no Nobel Peace Prize for pornography! Yet everywhere we can observe the devastation to families and communities, like my own, that experience this putrefaction first-hand. This week I was talking to a friend of mine that won a settlement with our Provincial Government in Supreme Court, over the disgusting infiltration of "nudists" in and around his property by a river. I say "nudists" because these are the new-breed of naked deviants to land on our beaches.

Public fornication in the middle of public access roads; rape and the sodomizing of passers-by; open defecation in rivers used for drinking water; and disposal of feminine hygiene products in the same waters or disposed of openly on access roads... without police intervention or deterrent. Not only can you see the worst kind of filth by internet, we now have those who openly practice this shame in front of anyone who passes by, from children to adults... there seems to be a rush towards total societal defilement.

"...researchers estimate porn is a $100-billion-a-year business worldwide. In the U.S. alone, people will spend $13.6 billion on porn this year. Technology has created a porn revolution. People of all ages have anonymous access to all types of porn, including 24.6 million pornographic websites, 12 percent of the entire Internet total. Around 25 percent of all Internet searches are porn related (68 million each day), and 35 percent of all downloads are pornographic. Each second in the U.S., people spend $3,075 on porn. In that same second, 28,000 Internet viewers are looking at porn."
http://enrichmentjournal.ag.org/201103/2...

While media and Hollywood glamorizes porn, those in the industry tell another story of it's disgusting reality. Why are so many people trying to escape the clutches of porn addiction and sexual deviance if it is so fulfilling? Deviance has engulfed all levels of our society, to the point that there seems to be no discerning what is right and what is wrong. This week I read a Headline: Judge tells teacher sex offender: 'I don't criticise you for being attracted to children' ...as a father of five children, I am almost sorry for bringing them into this world; it has become such a violently vomitous mess!

It is not enough to be "positive" about this degradation of society... we first must not contribute to it's decay. Take the sex out of schools, and put it back into marriages; take the Bible out of the waste basket, and put in back into practice; take the romance out of novels, and put it back into relationships; take back your self-respect, and show a little self-control; take lust out of your vocabulary, and replace it with love.

"How to Deal with Your Sexual Addiction
pornography, cybersex, phone sex, masturbation, etc."
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/s...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
"(Reuters) - Authorities said on Wednesday they have dismantled an online bulletin board allegedly used by 600 people around the world to trade graphic images and videos of child sex abuse."
http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/08/0...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
"Internet porn 'encourages sex offenders'
Pornography on the internet is normalising extreme fantasies and increasing the risk of sexual offences, psychologists have warned."
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/scien...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
Pat Trueman says: "...many of the men involved in child porn did not start there. "They start with adult pornography, even soft-core pornography," Trueman explains. "But according to the brain science studies, the longer they're looking at it [and] the more they ingest, the more likely they are to move to harder and more deviant material and many move to child pornography."
http://www.onenewsnow.com/Legal/Default....
UPDATE - 6 months ago
If you want a better look into the Porn industry and it's stats, the following is a good link...

Internet Pornography Statistics
http://internet-filter-review.toptenrevi...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
"So it is with men who immerse themselves in the me-first/pleasure/orgasm-centered world of Internet pornography. They keep everything for themselves. They even have sex with themselves, filling the role of both man and woman to reach sexual climax. Like the selfish sea, they can become truly dead in their desires and capacities to love, lift and serve those around them."
http://www.netnanny.com/learn_center/art...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
"SLAVE MASTER
How Pornography Drugs & Changes Your Brain
by Donald L. Hilton, Jr.
What does this have to do with pornography? Pornography is a visual pheromone, a powerful, $100 billion per year brain drug that is changing human sexuality by "inhibiting orientation" and "disrupting pre-mating communication between the sexes by permeating the atmosphere," especially through the internet. I believe we are currently struggling in the war against pornography because many continue to believe two key fallacies:

Fallacy No. 1: Pornography is not a drug.

Fallacy No. 2: Pornography is therefore not a real addiction."
http://www.salvomag.com/new/articles/sal...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
Pornography's Relationship to Rape and Sexual Violence
According to one study, early exposure (under fourteen years of age) to pornography is related to greater involvement in deviant sexual practice, particularly rape. Slightly more than one-third of the child molesters and rapists in this study claimed to have at least occasionally been incited to commit an offense by exposure to pornography. Among the child molesters incited, the study reported that 53 percent of them deliberately used the stimuli of pornography as they prepared to offend. i

The habitual consumption of pornography can result in a diminished satisfaction with mild forms of pornography and a correspondingly strong desire for more deviant and violent material.ii

Pornography's Relationship to Child Molestation
In a study of convicted child molesters, 77 percent of those who molested boys and 87 percent of those who molested girls admitted to the habitual use of pornography in the commission of their crimes.iii Besides stimulating the perpetrator, pornography facilitates child molestation in several ways. For example, pedophiles use pornographic photos to demonstrate to their victims what they want them to do. They also use them to arouse a child or to lower a child's inhibitions and communicate to the unsuspecting child that a particular sexual activity is okay: "This person is enjoying it; so will you."
http://www.protectkids.com/effects/harms...#i
UPDATE - 6 months ago
Addressing The Porn Pandemic
http://www.pornharms.com/category/resear...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
This is as ugly as it gets; in Canada last year...

"The RCMP say a 16-year-old British Columbia girl was drugged and "gang raped" at a weekend rave and photos of the assault were posted to Facebook.
Insp. Derren Lench says the attack has police investigating both the assault and charges related to distributing and possessing child pornography."
http://www.citytv.com/toronto/citynews/n...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
"PORN AND SEXUAL CRIME...
"In spite of the lack of formal research, though, the FBI's own statistics show that pornography is found at 80 percent of the scenes of violent sex crimes, or in the homes of the perpetrators" (1). Now I think that's kind of tough to ignore."
http://www.fightthenewdrug.org/Science/s...
UPDATE - 6 months ago
The following playlist of Expert Testimony covers the effect of the porn industry on the Medical, Social, Criminal and Educational facets of society.
Porn Harms: Expert Testimony and Presentation by Pornography Harms - Learn more at PornHarms.com
http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8...
UPDATE - 4 months ago
"According to Morality in Media (MIM) president Pat Trueman, it is "a major step forward from an influential country that could have worldwide effects," as the idea is to shield children from explicit material. To help accomplish this, parents and guardians will be able to use a site called Parentport that allows them to complain about websites, products, services, or programming that they believe is not appropriate for children.

"I long for the day that our Internet service providers [in the United States] would agree that porn harms and we have an untreated pandemic of harm that must be addressed," he adds."

And Trueman points out that though a number of U.S. laws prohibit the distribution of obscene pornography on the Internet, they are not being enforced by the federal government. So he believes the country needs a president who will actually carry those measures out.
http://www.onenewsnow.com/Culture/Defaul...
UPDATE - 1 month ago
"Overcoming the Porn Problem
New documentary wisely shines a light on personal stories, rather than just the 'experts' by Mark Moring"
http://blog.christianitytoday.com/ctente...%29

UPDATE - 28 days ago
"Darkening Our Minds: Porn's Impact...
If a person's eye is perpetually exposed to darkness, there comes an inevitable distortion in that person's thinking. It is in this darkening of the mind that pornography makes its leap from an act that is morally repugnant to one that has frightening consequences."
http://joedallas.com/blog/index.php/2012...
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Perfect Horizon
Perfect Horizon
Chicago, IL
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Perfect Horizon
Perfect Horizon
Chicago, IL
6 months ago: Limiting access to it or the production of it would be a limitation of personal liberty. Why should anyone have the right to tell another person what they can and cannot do or watch (in no way is this condoning the public acts you described) but within their own homes people have the right to do whatever they want.

The religious argument may work fine for you and if you don't take in pornographic content then that is great for you, but what about the rest of the people who believe differently than you? Trying to control other people based on your own personal religious beliefs is bordering on religious oppression.
Truthbrary
Truthbrary
Canada
6 months ago: Perfect,

Would you then agree with the Judge (that) tells teacher sex offender: 'I don't criticise you for being attracted to children'...
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/c...
Perfect Horizon
Perfect Horizon
Chicago, IL
6 months ago: Would I agree with what? Pedophilia? No...that is a crime. It is, however, not a crime for an adult to watch an adult movie, much like it is not a crime for adults to star/act/be in them.
Truthbrary
Truthbrary
Canada
6 months ago: Perfect,

You said... "Would I agree with what? Pedophilia? No...that is a crime." ...I actually hear that all the time... what if it wasn't a crime? What a sad defense... how about IT IS WRONG! Many places in the world it is not a crime, or not enforced... that is the degradation of this society... no longer knowing right and wrong.
Perfect Horizon
Perfect Horizon
Chicago, IL
6 months ago: I should have been more clear here. It is illegal because it is wrong. Obviously it is wrong. I don't live in the other parts of the world, but I am glad that agencies work hard to stop it all over the world.
Truthbrary
Truthbrary
Canada
6 months ago: Pat Trueman says: "...many of the men involved in child porn did not start there. "They start with adult pornography, even soft-core pornography," Trueman explains. "But according to the brain science studies, the longer they're looking at it [and] the more they ingest, the more likely they are to move to harder and more deviant material and many move to child pornography."
http://www.onenewsnow.com/Legal/Default....
dave_geek19
dave_geek19
Seattle, WA
1 month ago: It actually wasn't wrong in this country until the 1920's. There's actually a genetic reason for men to like younger women and women to like older men. Up until the 20's when lifespans finally increased greatly, you had 40 year old men marrying 16 year old women all the time. Right and wrong are completely subjective and based on the social contracts we've agreed to in society. Pedophilia IS NOT acceptable in our culture and laws, but once age of consent is reached and given, people can make their own decisions. If you don't like something don't go near it.

If porn is negatively affecting your life, stop watching it. If people are damaging your property, defend it. If gays are ruining your marriage, maybe you shouldn't have gotten married to a woman if you're gay?

It's all perspective.

Protect yourself by all means, but everyone has a right to choose.

"IT IS WRONG!!" is an even sadder defense, by the way. Declaring something to be so does not mean that it is. It's wrong for you maybe, but not everyone.
1 month ago: Wasn't wrong in this Country? Thank God someone did something about it then. It is no different than all the other garbage we have circling us that is getting to our kids and people fight to protect.
As far as genetic reasons for men and woman to be attracted to each other because of the young old thing isn't plausible. The trend for woman nowadays is to go with men way younger than themselves. Men like woman older because they feel they are more experienced, have more money and exploit them. What happened to love. No mention of that. None of this works without love and respect. Right and wrong is not subjective when the result is harmful to an individual. Pedophilia is never accepted. Once a person reaches that age of consent they have been severly damaged by it if someone got a hold of them. It isn't so easy to say stay away from things if those kind of sickening activities are around an sneek up on innocent people. People are usually unaware of it and feel intimidated and fearful when they are approached, especially children. There are people today kidnapped, murdered, put into slavery. Every day you see it happening. Little innocent children taken from their homes. What is the cause of this in our society? It's a sick society that needs porn and drugs to get through a day that normally would be a gift to them.
Truthbrary
Truthbrary
Canada
1 month ago: dave_geek19,

You said... "It actually wasn't wrong in this country until the 1920's" What?? It is still viewed as "not wrong" ...but doesn't change the fact that it is! NOT because I or anyone else says so, but because the porn requires the raping of children and teens to keep a steady flow of slaves pouring in! Read the testimonies of those who where trapped and still are; read the stories of those abducted or conned into the business; you have a lot to learn... and that's OK, we have nothing but time !:]

"Thanks to our friends in the media industries, and most Americans' inability to practice critical thinking, many bizarre Porn Myths have entered our cultural consciousness and have been swallowed whole by impressionable young people, to whom they are passed down as Truth. o.a.g. sets the record straight..."
http://www.oneangrygirl.net/pornmyths.ht...
6 months ago: I believe you are right in one sense.
On the other hand, there are people who don't care about raising their kids properly and expose them to unthinkable things. Kids have to be protected from this. Not everyone has a chance but laws can help prevent certain aspects of this deluge of exposure to these things that influence bad behavior. Sometimes a so called home, can be a living hell for a kid. A nightmare that they can't escape.
Abusive parents for one, who deliberately expose their kids to the dark side of life because of their own lives. I would think that some control is better than none. We didn't do so badly before when America was innocent. You were exposed to more quality of life and this set an example. If we don't have any kind of laws that but a stop on this junk going too far, we will lose our footing for the future. This has nothing to do with religious beliefs. You see from going through life who survives and does well and who doesn't. The ones that were given a chance without being affected from societies pitching of this stuff, become more solid citizens. Maybe the rest are sitting in Government seats in DC.
Children won't know anything else if they don't have a chance.
6 months ago: Wow. I'm not even sure where to start.

Our culture has definitely taken a turn for the worse where sexuality is concerned. There was a time when things were kept under wraps and not discussed, and that was not good. The pendulum now however has taken a big swing in the opposite direction.

Sex is good, but what has happened is that it has been twisted and exploited. The things just a short time ago which were pretty much agreed upon to be perverted are now paraded as some type of liberation.

The adults should know better. What really concerns me is the kids.

http://www.rantrave.com/Rant/Why-Sex-Edu...

The young folks are being literally bombarded with stuff that can make them into sexual screw ups for the rest of their lives. All types of deviant sexual behaviors are being communicated in music, the media, movies, television, billboards, and the mall, everywhere.

It's no wonder we have kids having sex at earlier and earlier ages. It's no wonder we have such skyrocketing abortion statistics. It's no wonder we have so many children born into single parent families and broken homes. Humanity is dysfunctioning and there are even some wackos out there that believe the problem is the nuclear family. To that I say - GET BENT.

Young people today are being taught that sex is a toy. They are being taught that there is absolutely nothing special or sacred about it. They are being taught that they cannot control themselves, nor should they try and that virginity is for losers.

I bet most parents don't even know what goes on with kids even as early as elementary or junior high.

Wake up people.
Perfect Horizon
Perfect Horizon
Chicago, IL
6 months ago: While I agree that children are being bombarded daily with this information I think I have to say: Where are the parents? Stop using the TV as a babysitter. Start paying attention to the music your kids listen to. Talk to your kids. Discipline your kids. Be a parent...I realize that you cannot be with the kids 24/7. However you can be in their minds all the time. My parents constantly monitored what I watched and listened to and talked to me about wrong and right and punished me for doing bad stuff.
6 months ago: With you 100% on that one.
6 months ago: Also, the job of parenting would be a lot easier if we did not have to always be concerned about the perverts pushing their perversion in the direction of our children through every available medium.

If someone want to "grease Weezer" in their bedroom, that's their issue. But when folks specifically and intentionally TARGET the kids, shut 'em down.

I'm all for liberty. But when that liberty is abused a line has to be drawn.

As adults, folks should realize the importance of our influence on the next generation. If our liberty is screwing that up that generation then maybe we need to sacrifice that liberty in lieu of the bigger picture. Right?

That makes sense, doesn't it?

But you know what? Some folks are too entrenched in their sin to care about the impact on others. They don't care and that really sucks.

Money talks and hedonism is king of this sin sick world.

That's the bottom line.
Truthbrary
Truthbrary
Canada
6 months ago: PH,

I also agree... "Stop using the TV as a babysitter" ...yet if the parents are using their liberties to access porn... what do you think the kids are going to do. There is a saying...

"What the parents have allowed in moderation...
the children have taken to excess!"
6 months ago: You had good parents PH. You were one of the lucky ones that got you through. Like I said not all parents are like that. I've seen parents totally not care for their children and leave them eating out of the garbage and wandering the streets with barely any shoes. God I don't know why I have seen these things. I hate when anyone hurts a kid. The only thing I can say is some of them are protected by God and get through in spite of being neglected. Very few.
Perfect Horizon
Perfect Horizon
Chicago, IL
6 months ago: What kind of parent watches porn in front of their child? Is it the people that make and act in the adult films fault that people are bad parents?
6 months ago: You were fortunate because your parents administered with love and affection.
Some kids would rebel against anything and everything, especially if the parents dictated corporal type punishment. Which many believe in.
It has to do with the individual. Then their are kids that are so influenced by their peers, they don't care what their parents disallow them to do.
Now a days you really have to be able to get around these kids that have been introduced to this kind of a society.
6 months ago: The job of parenting was never supposed to be easy. Don't assign blame to outside influences that are a direct result of failed parenting that allowed those influences to take precedence.

Sin is relative to what "you" think is sin. What another person thinks is sin might be something else entirely. I consider it a sin to not have sex except for pro-creation, such an abuse of the body to not use it's abilities to give and receive pleasure. Then again, I don't believe in sin..... in the "religious" sense that is.
dave_geek19
dave_geek19
Seattle, WA
1 month ago: Liberty implies people take responsibility for themselves and their family. Even thinking about limiting liberty is treasonous. Yes being a parent's hard, but if you wanted the kids then you have to deal with it. Being willing to sacrifice ANY measure of liberty for ANY measure of safety means you deserve NEITHER and is extremely insulting to all veterans, me included.

Kids should be in kid places and have kid things, if you bring a kid into an adult place that's your fault for whatever they're exposed to. Kids only have what the parent gives them or allows. Bad things happen in the adult world. Getting in their business is YOUR JOB, making sure they don't do stupid things is YOUR JOB, making sure they don't have something you