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Nudist and Topless Beaches

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Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
Is there a social stigma to topless beaches? What about nude beaches, do they fair better or worse than their topless counter parts? At the center of this debate, I believe is the fundamental desire of humans to express themselves in the most sincere way possible. For nudist as well as topless enthusiast it is the freedom of saying to the world, "This is me world. Take me as I am."

I'm sure it can be agreed as well that most adults have little or no reservations about public displays of nudity if it is mutually agreed upon and that if it will not prove in any way demeaning, where most people have a problem with public nudity however, is when children are considered.

Unfortunately some people like nude or topless beaches because they like to watch. For these people the act of public display of flesh is not a liberating act but an erotic one and there is no real effective way of separating those that watch from those that display.

Children can get caught in between because they are usually attached to families who may be whole hearted participants in the act of public nudity. Since we can not guarantee that perverts will not be lurking in the midst of nudist or topless enthusiast then what we have is a predatory playground for those of a dirty mind and who are the first to suffer? The children of course.

What do you think? Where do you way in on this subject?
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19 months ago: The prudishness of the American Religious Fanatics (ARF) has caused the conditions you addressed. There is no segment of the country where public nudity of the human body is allowed and many laws have been passed to penalize anyone who dares to display a portion of their body that has been deemed shameful and disgusting by the ARF's. They have even gone so far as to protest any photos, paintings or statues that display genitals in the publics view.

Why they are so ashamed of the human body is beyond me even though I grew up in an atmosphere of repression and disdain for anything that might reveal a portion of skin deemed excessive. I guess I spent too much time being exposed to the rest of the world for those negative ideas to stay rooted in my brain to cause lasting damage that I would pass on to my children. There was damage, I don't go nude on the beach or even the hot tub except when it's just me and the wife and the kids aren't flamboyant nudist if at all but they don't cringe at the sight of someone's exposed body parts either and the don't go to extreme measures to hide their children's body parts when changing diapers or swimming in the pool and the grandkids aren't so shy as to run and hide when they need to adjust or change their garments.

I've seen some adults and kids who are so prudish that if they thought there was a chance that they might expose a body part, they would burst into tears before allowing it, crying the entire time that someone might see their wee wee or butt. Sometimes it is just impossible to be totally discreet and sometimes it's necessary for others to see a portion of your body that would normally be concealed and it's these times when prudish behavior can be a real problem by causing undue emotional stress in the person being prudish and by inducing fear of a lawsuit in those trying to help.
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19 months ago: As for those who derive sexual pleasure from viewing others exposed bodies, they probably still need to have sex with the opposite sex for once in their lives because they obviously aren't getting satisfaction, that or they are mentally bent. I'm not saying that viewing an attractive example of the opposite sex isn't pleasurable, just that unless you are going to have sex with them, you have to leave that thought out of your mind and just enjoy the scenery.
RLwoods
RLwoods
Victorville, CA
19 months ago: The prudishness comes from religious values. Values that deny the right to have intercourse with anyone you so desire, and values that state that even if you are to have sexual relatuions with someone of the correct gender and age, you still need to have the churches blessing iun the form of church recognized marriage before it leaves the sin catagory.

it is that temptation that leaves alot of people so starved for sexual relations. It is the very nature of "the forbidden fruit". People want what they cant have, and they seek any opportunity to get what they want.

Most people can not push that thought away because that eternal wanting is so ingrained inside of our culture that to think of something else would be almost unamerican.

it is by the power of the desire to make sexual intercourse a bad thing that we have made the natural human body a evil thing to look at.

this is especially true for the female figure because of the pure intensity of the sexual frustration that resides inside the perpetual male church hierarchy.
19 months ago: Bill and Barack have the chioce spots on permanent lease for 'meetings'.
sarababe
sarababe
Adger, AL
19 months ago: Get a whole nude attitude!
Nude is normal
Like your body? Show it!
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Who says there's anything wrong with skin?
Skinful isn't sinful
Turn life skin-side out - go naked
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Altruist
Altruist
Eugene, OR
19 months ago: There are still a few places where nudity is allowed. Here in San Diego there is Black's Beach. In Springfield Or. there is a beach along the Willamette.

The body is a good and natural thing and people shouldn't be ashamed of it. The prurience and perversion comes from covering everything up. Look at the Muslims. They see one inch of skin and they think that they can't control themselves. They punish the women for their own weaknesses.

In the West there is so much near nudity, that taking off the pasties and the G string doesn't make that much of a difference anyway for women. I'm probably sexist but I don't think the male package is that attractive, but I think a nudist beach is an effective sex education class.

I think it would be good and wholesome to have children used to seeing nudity. 95% of the people on a nude beach are not very good physical specimens, so to appear nude in public is an act of bravery and truthfulness. I think it would be good for kids to see the truth of what people look like without all of the contraptions to hold stuff in and push other things up.
19 months ago: You can not cite one example for me of a child that has been harmed by the mere sight of a nude human. It just doesn't happen! It can't happen! The only damage is in the mind of the adult who imagines the trauma to the child and then inflicts emotional distress on the child because of his [the adult's] preconceived notion that viewing nudity can somehow cause harm to the child. It is the adult's extreme reaction to the nudity that causes the emotional stress to the child. If the child were left alone, they could view nudity all day long and not care a bit.
19 months ago: Well said.
19 months ago: There is the old adage; "If God wanted us to be nude, we would be born that way!"

Many see nudity as a kind of freedom. To feel nature's breeze without clothing is a pleasant experience, although hot sand demonstrates need for barriers.

Nudity may be strange to the uninitiated, but human interaction is similar whether through internet, telephone, past barriers of clothing, or without any of these.

Several posters have mentioned how a few people are fixed or fixated in negative ideas, pedophiles who might view nude children as objects, rather than knowing them to be small people. Yes, there are some people who would destroy day to day activity. So we must maintain police and prisons and stop those few, so the rest of us can live normal lives.
THE RONBOT HUNTER
THE RONBOT HUNTER
19 months ago: There are people that were/are blessed with good looks.

It is no sin to enjoy watching a beautiful woman.

We do this on the TV every day.

All TV Ads show and use the human body to sell their products.

A nude beach should be closed off to anyone under 18 to 21.

The laws that ban private, secured and secluded beaches are too restrictive.

At 66 I would enjoy watching beautiful women and eating a fine lunch at the same time.

It would make this lonely heart beat a bit faster.

These people, both men and women enjoy being watched. I say let them. But keep out the ugly ones or I won't go.

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Siempre Solo
Siempre Solo
Auburn, NY
19 months ago: I'm surprised this topic got as much attention as it did.
Personally I don't think people should be forced to be nude or be clothed. The idea of covering our bodies is not purely puritanical; it is a necessity to protect our sensitive skin from exposure to the climate around us. It is also a necessity for presenting ourselves in various situations. Who wants to eat at a restaurant where the cook and wait staff is nude? The idea of nude beaches or resorts I believe is to give people a chance to express themselves on a more liberated manner.

As some one here mentioned most nudist are average folks with less than cover model appeal. Children don't get to make choices for themselves on such a scale, which is why I believe keeping them covered in public places not only makes sense but might fulfill a legal obligation on the part of the parent as well. You just don't know what kind of weirdo's are out there and it is best err on the side of protecting the little ones than to have them suffer because of our laps in judgment! Whatever the case though, I think this proves that Americans at least are willing to discuss these issues. Keep the ideas coming !
THE RONBOT HUNTER
THE RONBOT HUNTER
19 months ago: "I'm surprised this topic got as much attention as it did."

Mr. Solo, I am surprised that you would make that statement.

The average man does not want to read things that are serious, educational or thought provoking.

He wants to read, look at and be entertained by nonsense things: such as movie or cartoon reviews or anything sensational or anything to do with sex.

That is why some authors here are top authors, and that is as it should be. Because they are giving out info for the masses.

Remember, the masses collective have a lower IQ than you or me.

We like to think about serious things and have a higher purpose in life than watching movies or cartoons.

But, by now everybody knows that SEX always sells and always attracts.

Even I am attracted to looking at a beautiful woman and especially a naked one.

When you get to be my age, making your heart beat faster, is all we have.

I am just a man, more mature than most, but still a man.

I will always look and smile and dream about my younger years.

The masses want sex and simple things.

They want to be happy without any effort on their part.

It takes a lot to make them move as a single person.

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dana hanks
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19 months ago: God created the human form to be beautiful.

Like Siempre said clothing is really only necessary to help one survive or be more comfortable in certain elements and locations. Clothing protects.

It's a joke when I read comments from folk who believe people are uncomfortable with nudity only because of religious prudism. That's a pretty asinine and myopic opinion to have.

Religion is not the cause of the discomfort, sickness is. Sick religious folk and sick secularists alike.

In particular secularist values like promiscuity, hedonism and sexual irresponsibility are as responsible as a Muslim burka for the sexual neurosis of this culture.

Since time began the female form has been exploited not by religious people but by the secularist and the god-less.

Where some religious folk try to cover it up in frear, the secularist tries to uncover and not enjoy, but exploit. They even want to turn our tots into sex symbols, dress our daughters like prostitutes and turn our women into whores.

Easy to go to the mall these days and find a prostitute outfit and it's not even Halloween.

There they are, right in the display window. Wouldn't you just love to see YOUR daughter in that (or falling out of it). Mmmm! MMMmmm! Hot stuff!

We live in a sick civilization. We live in a sick society. Even a sick nation (God bless America, anyhow).

Both extremes of the secular and the religious are extremely unhealthy.

The body is beautiful. Male and female. Sex is the crowning gift a man and woman are to share, exclusively with each other and in the bonds of commitment.

It's a shame that this society is continuously attempting to cheapen, exploit and degrade both.

I'm just glad not everyone falls for it.

Ho-hoppin' is another sick trip. Abort by-product babies, right? Wrong! Not on my watch.

Grow-up guys and gal. Grow up.

BTW - nothing wrong with a designated topless or nude beach in my "religious opinion." For goodness sake it is a BEACH after all. Sheesh!
The Thinker
The Thinker
Elizabeth, NJ
10 months ago: Opposition to nude beaches and discrimination towards nudists are basically the same old story of whiners who refuse to accept that the world doesn't always spin in their favor, and try to fight it as much as possible.

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