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Lesbians like boy looking lesbians?

Posted 10 months ago|3 comments|448 views

Isn't she a lesbian?

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lesbian , alternative lifestyle , choice

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KAT05
San Diego, CA

Ok...... Why is that that some lesbians like the lesbians that look and act like men? If you are a female and like other females, shouldn't you be more attracted to women looking lesbians? By this post I mean no disrespect, I just wonder why that is? Is it because lesbian women hate guy parts but like the masculine a boy exterior? I'm not very educated on the matter so maybe I'm being ignorant but if I was a female I'd love a girl with long flowing hair, a nice womanly smell and all the beauties that come with being a girl. So for myself, being a man, I'm definitely a lesbian! I have plenty of gay friends and have not one single bone in my body that hates on the lifestyle. I embrace it to the fullest. Sometimes I'll be out with some of my gay buds and ill see the lesbians, which by the way seems like they hate everyone (especially guys), and they'll be smooching or whatever and I from an angle they look like a straight couple but the turn comes and it just so happens that this couple is two girls. I always want to ask the question directly but lesbians are scary! Even more so than some men. The lesbians seem very territorial and not so much "gay happy." Either that or maybe I'm just a **** (no pun intended). So if you could lesbians of the world, help me with this rant of mine!

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Huey Newton

10 months ago: Kato - I know you called out Lesbians to answer. So far you have no responses, so I'll chime in.

It's called gender confusion. It is extremely rare where you have an individual that is raised in a loving, stable, two parent family where the male and female roles are clearly defined that you have an individual that has identity problems. Most girls will want to be like mom, just like most boys will want to emulate dad.

Masculine and feminine are clearly distinct in our make up. There is overlap however. Men can be warm and compassionate at times, just like women can be tenacious tough and quite aggressive and physical. However in a stable family there is always a balance.

Gender confusion comes about were the gender lines are blurred and the distinction is no longer as clearly apparent. Aberrant sexual attraction and behavior is bred in environment like those. That explains why in many cases we have the situation of which you speak.

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KAT05
San Diego, CA

10 months ago: Thank you for some clarity :)

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Dwayne Johnson

10 months ago: KAT05

I think since Huey chimed in I figure I can too. I hope you don't mind getting another male opinion. Maybe between the three of us we can draw out at the very least a female response if not a lesbian one. Much like you, I'd like to think of myself as a male lesbian, that is if a lesbian is a person who is deeply attracted to the feminine gender. If that is the case then call me guilty. However I think there is more to lesbians than that. For one I think you have to be female and like females so that would count me out.

Which brings me to my next point. What kind of female would be attracted to another female. Well my experience with gay acquaintances has taught me that there are three types of lesbian. The first one is the lesbian that is hetero in her public life but gay in her private life. Such a lesbian tends to exhibit feminine traits and is usually attracted to more mature and experienced lesbians. I think what they seek is the best of masculine qualities combined with the essential feminine sensibilities that most men ignore or lack.

The second type of lesbian much like the first is feminine in appearance but unlike the first is open about her sexuality. She is more likely to experiment with various gender archeypes both masculine, feminine and in between. I think this is due to how she feels about herself. She is comfortable with the idea of experimentation.

The third type are the ones that try to emulate masculine traits, be they boyish or more manly qualities. In this group I believe can be included transgender female to males that just have top surgery and take testosterone to deepen their voice and get facial hair and a more masculine muscle definition. I think these lesbians are the ones that predominantly feed the need that gay women feel for female companionship.

The whole lesbian experience I've noticed is driven by a different machine than the male gay experience. Men tend to seek out gay relations to satisfy a physical desire or fantasy. In other words it is fetishistic in nature. While gay females tend to seek out a type of balance in relationships that is very rare among heterosexual couples. Perhaps if men focused less on the actual sexual act and more on the emotional needs in a relationship then less women would feel prone to seek out a gay partner. Perhaps? But that would not account for those females that simply seek out a gay partner because they find men repulsive and women exquisite.

You know what? I'm not a woman or a lesbian so I guess I really don't know. Do I? Hey, I'm with you! Any lesbians out there ? Could y'all please stop preparing for The next Dina Event long enough to give us ignorant knuckle draggers a hollar?

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