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"Youths who spend a lot of time on social media sites are at risk of "Facebook depression", a group of doctors say... Though the symptoms and the resulting harmful behaviour may be similar to "offline depression", the American Academy of Pediatrics has proposed Facebook depression as a new phenomenon."
http://www.christiantoday.com/article/th...

"CHICAGO—Add "Facebook depression" to potential harms linked with social media, an influential doctors' group warns, referring to a condition it says may affect troubled teens who obsess over the online site."
http://www.boston.com/news/education/hig...

Facebook "the new mall" where teens go to hang out... but instead of facing the onslaught of enemy glares... one faces the cyber-sized REJECTION that only a social network can deliver... up-close and way to personal!

From Facebook obsession to Facebook depression... it would seem the whole social competition has just been scaled up a notch, with the show-off of media awareness to posting those rare gems of weirdness... you're off-the-hook if you're not on Facebook. But all the negatives are also increasing to the extent that it has captured many physicians attention... and there is reason for concern...
and they have coined it Facebook Depression.

Cyberbullying, social anxiety, acute isolation, and now... Facebook depression, as IF there wasn't enough out there in the "real world" to be depressed about. What is this insatiable desire to be "connected" to as many "friends" as possible... when just a few friends will do? The inability to fill our lives with others, leaves us only wanting more. I think the heart of the depression goes to something I focused on in an earlier rant Lawsuit Challenges Assisted-Suicide Laws where constant comparison and envy of others lives cause deep depression, and suicidal thoughts. With the constant barrage of "glossies" and toys sported by contemporaries... it leaves some ever wishing and never fulfilled.

Words seem to come so easy to some.... I was on my "Failbook" when I witnessed the unbridled hatred one of my "friends" was showing to another, we are talking vulgar, personal, and vicious! Who can defend that kind of public humiliation and airing of personal "laundry"? It was bad enough that over the phone, one would receive a good tongue lashing... but this is the new wave of gang-slaying that may be almost impossible to recover from. Where are the Facebook police when you need them?

REALITY is hard enough to come-by and we all need more than just a "taste" of it... the social network is not the place we will be finding it anytime soon, however it is not going away, rather it is creating a new "reality" that we are all being forced to reckon with. Wasn't it just yesterday that we could go fishing or take a hike? But too many visits to the fast food guru's and we rather regress into the cave of Myspace or another fix of isolation... IF only it was really a "Happy Meal" ...what's next, online Facebook therapists?

UPDATE - 29 days ago
"Don't Waste Your Life" by John Piper
http://dwynrhh6bluza.cloudfront.net/reso...
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Paper Tiger
Paper Tiger
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12 months ago: REALITY is hard enough to come-by and we all need more than just a "taste" of it.

Is your 'mall' the bible, try that for reality.
12 months ago: PT,

The Bible is full of good practical advice and guidance, full of hope and comfort for those who are in need. However it has little to offer those who are already full.
sunny2
sunny2
12 months ago: Well put. I never saw it that way. Those who are already full may see beyond it.
sunny2
sunny2
12 months ago: Truth … I'm not on or am I a fan of Facebook and will never be. I believe a couple of good friends and family are precious as gold for our conscious minds to be healthy. If anyone is worth knowing, they will be there in real life for you and FB can't fill that void up. Facebook is not reality. It is a bunch of old acquaintances that cross your path in life and never meant to be seen again as we move forward. Maybe once or twice in a grocery store to bump into each other remembering they didn't like you in the first place. That dark cavity that they call social networking is nothing but a watering hole for limited anti social people to mull around in. Whatever comes from it at this point could be worse than what we have seen experiencing since its creation. Computers brought with it carpal tunnel syndrome, and neck and back problems, trigger thumb, and anxiety because one is expected to work at the speed of light. If people don't keep up with new technology every single day, they are out on the street looking for a job. It has opened the door to expose children to the dark side of cyber space where parents can't protect them. It provides a place for criminals to hang out. Facebook is no different when it comes to creating problems. FB I can see changing into a monster of some sort in the next few years. It takes away from the wholesome quality of life. I'm not saying there aren't people that just have fun with it because there are but very few. I have to agree with you on this one. A person might feel rejected depressed from being ignored on it and leaving themselves open to criticism. Facebook Syndrome......... a new disease.
12 months ago: Sunny,

I definitely see the down-side of FB and it's Pandora's entry into some dangers... and parental guidance is a must... however that is not going to happen in most cases, and a real social network of real friends will be the key to surviving this virtual world.
sunny2
sunny2
12 months ago: That is true. I get skeptical because I hear things on the news that violence has occurred from being on it and people have been victims of it. I don't use it but my daughter does. I belong to another very large group of people on the internet. She has a lot of friends on it some actively interact and some don't. Again, that is the way it is anyway.
markbyrn
markbyrn
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12 months ago: ...Wasn't it just yesterday that we could go fishing or take a hike?...

No, yesterday the busybodies were complaining about people watching the boob tube all day long but now they're complaining about people using the Internet. The difference today is the busybodies are using the Internet to complain about the Internet and telling people to get a life. Considering your prodigious use of this website, I find it ironic that you would write about people using Facebook to escape reality. All thing in moderation, including hiking, fishing, or surfing the web.
12 months ago: Just a warning of misuse and danger of misapplication. Now, you wouldn't think that being a Moderator is a "busybody" would you? Well, neither would I, keep up the moderation !:]

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