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In general, I'm indifferent about most people. I don't think either way about them. But sometimes, I form opinions about certain people. Thin people and fat people, well, some of them, are an example.
NO, this is NOT about bashing anyone for being whatever size they happen to be. This rant is about certain behaviors that SOME thin people and SOME fat people have. Note, I said SOME. S-O-M-E. While I tend to gravitate more toward fat people than thin, my own weight has nothing to do with this. In fact, I've been both fat AND thin. I'm just expressing my thoughts based on what I see. Regardless of my weight my opinions are still the same.
Although I have to admit that in general thin people (as with any group that has power and privilege) tend to annoy me more than fat people (or other disadvantaged, less powerful groups), some fat people still work my nerves in the worst way.
FAT PEOPLE:
The self-hate and self-bashing needs to stop. I know how hard and frustrating it can be to be fat in a world that worships thinness, but if you're fat and you go around hating yourself, you will lose your mind. Also, lashing out at others doesn't help. It's no one's fault you got fat (no one even knows why some people get fat and others don't), so don't hate the thin ones because you're miserable. It's not worth it.
Don't believe the hype and bogus, BS reports. You're not inferior in ANY way. Yes, you CAN find someone. Tell the haters to shove it. What's with the fat superiority? I don't care if you're fat yourself, talking trash about someone else for being fat is not only stupid and hypocritical, but just as bad as some thin idiot making fun of YOU for being fat. So knock it off. Fat is fat.
What's with the hypocrisy of some of you? You're fat, but you don't even want to look at another fat person as a potential date or friend? If others harshly judge you, why do it to someone else? That's not fair. GUYS, you REALLY need to get a clue. How are you going to talk about a girl having some extra weight on her, and you look like 4 of her?
For the ones who do, do you HAVE to constantly whine and down yourself? It's not cute or attractive and it's just boring. Talk about something else. Quit with those stupid diets. They don't work and they turn you into an obnoxious obsessed turd. You didn't gain weight overnight, you won't lose weight overnight. Stop harming yourself trying to look like someone else. No, you will NOT become more attractive if you lose weight. Ugly is ugly, and you can't change ugly.
Clothes don't make you look fat. Fat makes you look fat. There's nothing wrong with that, but no need to be in denial. It's most likely just an ugly or ill-fitting outfit. As for clothing, ladies, why are you trying to put on stuff that's already ugly and unflattering on thin females? You'd look MUCH better than the thin ones if you stopped trying to dress just like them.
Stop trying to justify your existence to hateful people. You are fine just the way you are. You don't have to explain yourself. It's no one's business what you do.
If you were once thin and got fat, stop acting like it's the end of the world. It's not.
THIN PEOPLE:
To be honest, a lot of you make it hard for people to like you. To be honest, I DON'T much like a lot of you. There. I said it. I've been wanting to say it for a long time now. It's true, though. Whenever you open your mouths, stupid comes out. You'll even start out nice and end up mean.
Why so darn hypocritical? Why is it okay for you to stuff YOUR faces all day long, but you want to talk about any fat person who even LOOKS at food, no matter what it is? Why is it okay for YOU to go out and about, but you make fun of those who are fat, or just plain make them feel uncomfortable? Everything you do, you act as if you're the only ones who are entitled. Don't even start trying to lie, I KNOW you do it, and you know it, too. You're not the only ones who want to enjoy yourselves, or travel, or go on vacations, or be social, or eat, or just exist. Just how insecure are you to want to give a hard time to anyone bigger than you?
Get it through your heads, the whole world is NOT jealous or envious of you because you're thin. That always gets me, everytime one of you mentions a fat person not treating you like a god, the first thing you want to think or say is, "Well, they're just jealous". NO, they just don't like you, you were probably acting like a turd and deserved it.
The fake sympathy is annoying. Take it and shove it up your own butt. No one needs you acting like you're sooooo hurt when a fat person gets teased, because deep down I know you're probably thinking to yourselves you're glad it's not you. They don't need your pity. All fat people want is for you to treat them with courtesy and respect. Also, if you don't want to associate with fat people, fine, but no need to be an A-hole about it.
STOP ASKING PEOPLE IF YOU ARE FAT!!! We all know you're just fishing for compliments. You know darn well you're not fat. Next time one of you asks if you're fat, I'm going to make sure I tell you to your face, "Yep, you sure are!". Shut up. Like I said to the fat people, clothes don't make you look fat. It's most likely just an ugly or ill-fitting outfit.
Quit whining about the few times you got made fun of for your weight, because you KNOW it's not the same as when it happens to a fat person. You can STILL find your body type represented and praised SOMEWHERE. Fat people, not so much. Finding a positive representation of a fat person without any stereotypes attached is like finding a giant bag of gold. Very unlikely to happen. So do I care because you got called "twig" or "beanpole" or some other stupid name? No. It's not nice, but come on, for every one bad comment you get, you can find 100 good ones.
Stop acting like fat people deserve to be ridiculed and humiliated for their weight. No one does. Oh, you mean you actually had to sit near a fat person on a plane or bus and you were uncomfortable? Oh boo hoo. So what? The fat person was probably uncomfortable, too, and moreso not only because of the stupid seats, but judgmental bigots like you who go out of your way to make others feel bad. Public transportation seats, whether on a plane or train or bus, are laughable and only short skinny people and little kids are comfortable on them. EVERYONE is uncomfortable. If you're that bothered, why don't YOU buy an extra seat, or heck, a whole row? Or why don't YOU take the bus or drive? If you say you can't or don't want to, then what makes you think a fat person can or wants to any more than you? Suck it up and STFU about your precious space. The ride won't last forever and you'll most likely never see that person again, so why be an A-hole trying to make someone else miserable? I'd much rather ride on a plane next to a fat person than ride next to a parent and their screaming demon spawn- I mean, child(ren).
OBESITY IS NOT AN EPIDEMIC, YOU PARANOID MORONS. It's NOT. You don't have sex with a fat person and get fat. You don't touch a fat person and get fat. You can't catch 'the fat' from a fat person coughing or sneezing near you. Fatness isn't just floating around in the air. Fatness doesn't spread from person to person. Something like AIDS is an epidemic, simply being fat is NOT. You are not healthier than any fat person just for being thin, nor are you smarter, more moral, more attractive, or any of the crap you use to degrade others. Guess what else? When babies are born they are mostly FAT. Fatness is not unnatural and neither is thinness. Some people are naturally meant to be fat, just as some people are naturally meant to be thin. It just happens. There have ALWAYS been fat people, this is not something new. Eating and body disorders are a much bigger problem than there being fat people. Really, don't you think there are more important matters to be concerned about in the world than picking on fat people? You're just special, and not the good kind of special, either.
Quit assuming fat people are fat because they're lazy and eat all the time. Tell me, are you thin because you starve yourself, work out like a maniac, and are on drugs? Most likely not, so why make absurd blanket statements about fat people? Fat people are not at any more risk than you. If they have health problems, it's not because of the fat. Maybe they're smokers, maybe they're stressed, there's a number of reasons why people are unhealthy. You can't just look at a person and know they're health status, either.
You're a moron if you think fat people are taking up all the resources or are to blame for anything. If a fat person doesn't eat something, is it magically going to disappear and reappear if front of some starving person somewhere else? No. It'll go to waste or be eaten by someone else. If a fat person doesn't drive a car, does it mean pollution will go away? No. Don't even get me started on the dumb claim that the cost of healthcare is increasing because of fat people. That's pure BS and you KNOW it. If healthcare is increasing, it's not because people are fat, it's because of the crap they're forced to eat, they're living longer and getting older and require more care, they keep sucking down medication they don't need because companies just want to keep making more money. THAT is what's making healthcare increase. Not people who are just fat, and if you think they're 'putting themselves at risk' just for being fat, then what about the countless thin idiots who put themselves in dangerous situations and get hurt and need hospitalization? Or have the same lifestyles that are supposedly putting fat people at risk? Yeah, a fat person might have a heart attack or get cancer in the future, but what about the thin people who suffer from such ailments right now?
Fat people know they're fat, 'kay? No need to point out the obvious. How'd you feel if everytime you went out people pointed to you and made comments about your appearance? It's annoying. Also, stop telling fat people to 'just lose weight'. A fat person can't snap their fingers and make themselves smaller anymore than you can make yourselves smarter or richer or more talented. Fat people are not desperate, either. Don't think that just because you're thin you can treat them any kind of way.
When you see a fat person working out or eating something healthful, WTF is your problem when you laugh at the person and talk crap and make snide remarks and rude comments? Just WTF is your problem?!! Fat people just can't win. You make fun of their weight and tell them to eat a salad or not eat at all, and when they work out or eat a salad or try to starve themselves, all you have is discouragement. You're not helping, so STFU!
KNOCK IT OFF WITH THE SEXISM!! Don't even ask, you know what I'm talking about.
Your scare tactics don't work. If shame made people thin, there wouldn't be any fat people. Also, if fat people being at peace with themselves is promoting obesity (which is a bunch of crap) then logic dictates that you are promoting anorexia by being at peace with YOURselves.
If you were fat and got thin, you REALLY shouldn't be trying to look down your nose at others who are fat, because you're probably one illness or wrong meal away from being fat again.
It seems to me it would just be simpler for people to mind their own matters and get along with others than to be hateful over some stupid stuff.